when you realize the one you love has someone else?..♥♥♥
2007-07-27 18:03:39 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
i don't think it ever really stops, i mean i thought i was over it, but i just saw the guy after 2 years and went home and cried myself to sleep that night, it was awful since we had guests and my mom recognized the guy and was lk you should go talk to him, but he was there with a bunch of his friends (they used to be my friends to but i switched schools)... and they recognized me and basically kept showing up all over town, the whole group of them, and my mom and sister kept trying to get their attention while i was hidding behind somewhere planning how to get the car keys and drive away... it wasn't fun... it was at this harry potter party were they had activities for kids in town for about 20 blocks, so we left and decided to walk by the river and the boats and they showed up there too!! i was flipping out by the end of the night not wantng to burst into tears infront of every one, what hurts more is that he asked me out first!!!! and i don't know why i said no (i think i didn't want to tell my parents about him) and lk 20 sec later he was saying all this crap about me and he asked this girl a year old than us out and rubbed it in my face, so i guess i shouldn't miss him but i do and i didn't realize it until a few days ago...
but anyway about your question, i guess you just move on and don't think about it anymore, but if you do just run into him, or something that reminds you of him, you'll start crying for no real reason just b/c... and well it hurts
2007-07-27 18:15:28 · answer #1 · answered by Sofia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes it stops, and when it does you are usually glad to be rid of that person I have found. The hard part is dealing with it for the time being. You may be a little screwed up :) but you are not as bad as some people I know. You are a pretty and loving person, who just seems to get the bad end of the stick from time to time. If that pic on here is of you I must say you are a very very good looking and beautiful woman. So you should not have any problems finding a new man. The key is make sure he is honest, trustworthy, loving and cares about you and wants to help take care of you. You are to sweet a person to deserve anything less. :)
2007-07-27 18:37:03 · answer #2 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through a rough time around the holidays and for some reason listening to The Stones made me feel better. Not sure why, maybe because I hadn't in awhile and it felt like a visit from an old friend. "you can't always get what you want, but if you try sometimes you just might find, you get what you need"
2016-05-20 23:33:40 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. The realization that it wasn't meant to be, that you are a unique human being that will have other opportunities and a bit of time to heal all play a part in the pain stopping.
2007-07-27 18:09:51 · answer #4 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! After a period of time ..You'll feel like you been kicked in the guts and and IT will hurt..Don't resort to oblivion,thinking it was your fault,or any thing else..it was a passage in your life and you will stronger for it..the love is gone..the pain remains,but this too will be gone.Get back in the saddle...Gently.LOL.
2007-07-27 18:14:26 · answer #5 · answered by kit walker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, the pain does stop. If he already has someone then its not ment to be. You need to find a single guy. You will find someone. A girl as cute as you prolly has plenty of guys lined up to date you. If not then they must be crazy shy or just straight crazy.
2007-07-27 18:07:47 · answer #6 · answered by Heidi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes if you start to really love yourself and day by day realize that that person was not the one for you...and that life is too short to be sad for too long
love yourself and the right one will come along!
have a good nite ;)
2007-07-27 18:08:15 · answer #7 · answered by live4ever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, the pain usually turns in to bitterness.
2007-07-27 18:08:06 · answer #8 · answered by tictak kat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep.
that really stinks, i know.
there are two ways to go.
i either break out the chocolate and the romantic movies and let it all out and get over it
or i break out the salad, go on a long run, and channel my inner sadness and anger into good energy.
usually, i do them in that order as well.
i hope that your pain goes away soon. :)
2007-07-27 18:07:24 · answer #9 · answered by garmaijowee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to tell you the same thing i just told someone else who asked a similar question:
sometimes your first love isn't really your love after all. and when he gets married to someone else, you know that he wasn't the one for you.
it will take some time but you will get over it. for me it took two years and some help from another boyfriend to get over him. but now i have found my true love and we are getting married next summer.
it's hard. it sucks. but you have to think about all the things you are that he gave up because he couldn't see how wonderful you are. there is a guy for you who can see YOU. you as you truly are and he will love you for all of it. your ups, downs, quirks, bitchy moments, everything. he won't see a single flaw in you.
suggestion: don't stress about finding a guy right now. if you relax and realize you don't need a man to make you happy and love yourself, you can enjoy being single and when you do that, mr. perfect will notice your confidence and everything else about you and he will come running.
2007-07-27 18:06:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋