ok, so i have this friend [she was more of an acquantance untill recently.] that was having alot of trouble with her friends, and now they arent friends anymore. and these girls are WICKED!!! they call her and leave mean messages on her phone and called her other friend too! and one of the girls that was doing it wasnt even involved in the drama. she was only doing it because the girls that were actually mad at her [for a really stupid reason] were.
and all of them are stupid mean wannabe posers! seriously, they think they are cool and hot, but ive heard the 'cool' ppl talk about them and call them wannabes and posers.
well, n e way, its getting really bad. the 1 girl that had nothing to do with it is posting myspace stuff about how much she 'hates' her. and they made fun of my friend's friend for sticking up for her.
well, i think they no im friends with her now and im gonna b honest..im scared. these girls are like the mean girls, only not as popular lol. so n e advice..
2007-07-27 14:04:11 · 3 answers · asked by yeahxitsxsarah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
as to what i could do to stand up for myself and my friend if they confront me or w/e without getting myself involved in the drama and have them hate me too? i love my friend and ill be glad to stick up for her, but i dont want to be hated and harassed by them.
2007-07-27 14:05:36 · update #1
Tell you what I'd do - I'd go up to the "truly cool people", and enlist their HELP!!! They HATE the WANNABE'S that are harrassing your friend,because THEY feel threatened! BUT - they'll scare the S^*) out of them. Anytime you are asked to HELP, it's a GOOD thing - makes you feel IMPORTANT!!! LET them take your friend on as a "project"!!! They will INSTANTLY feel even MORE important!!! And when these "wannabe" Losers discover who's BEHIND your friend, they'll not only leave HER alone, but her friends, too!!! (YOU!) Seen it happen time, and time again!!! Then, they'll think TWICE before dissing anyone again!!! LET THE C OOL PEOPLE WORK FOR YOU GUYS!!! XO, Becky
2007-07-27 14:33:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of how you will look back on this 10 years from now. If you stick up for her, and are brave you will have won a war against evil. It's hard. It's scary. But you will not regret it. It's a great way to live your life so that you never have regrets. The Bible says to store up for yourself treasurers for heaven. This is the way to do it. By not compromising your principles. By fighting evil. By helping those in need. By doing good deeds.
Here is a story though, that might help.
Once there was a snake who everyone hated because he killed their people, and made them live in fear. A Holy man came through the village and the people there pleaded for his help. So he went to talk to the snake. He explained how bad the snake was being and, through eloquent persuasion caused the snake to become peace loving. The Holy man having done what was asked of him left the village. The people were safe from the snake.
When the Holy man returned, much to his surprise the snake had been beaten almost to an inch of his life. He asked the snake what had happened. The snake told him that once the villagers new he would not hurt them some young boys beat him senseless.
The Holy man admonished the snake. He said I told you you were not to hurt the people. I never told you you could not rattle your tail!
So use your smarts. BE CAREFUL AND AVOID THESE GIRLS EVERY TIME YOU CAN!! Hopefully they will forget you. And always remember to pray.
The world is a bad place, not because of righteousness, but because of a lack of it.
2007-07-27 21:30:09 · answer #2 · answered by Jann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm........ Well,,, for me i would beat the **** out of them,,, there is no need to talk it out with bitches and ***** out there.. but if you dont like to fight or cant you should avoid them along with your friend as much as possible...ignore,,,
2007-07-27 21:13:55 · answer #3 · answered by Dream big 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋