ok, so ive known this girl for a while and we were sorta friends but not like hang out on weekends friends. well, she has been having a lot of trouble with her friends, and well, they arent friends anymore. [and these girls are wicked!! they are wannabe posers and think they are so hot but they arent!!] well, they have been harassing her and making mean phone calls to her and her other friends, including this girl that didnt even associate with her, she is only hating my friend because her friends hate her for some stupid reason!! and u know those stupid ms bullitens that say 'who would u like to kill?' well they put her name!
well, now we are better friends, and the other girls know it probably. so what should i do if i go back to school and they hate on me for it? they are like a mean 'click' and im i guess scared lol. any advice for how i can handle whatever they do in a way that i stick up for her but dont get myself involved in their drama?
2007-07-27 13:48:58 · 12 answers · asked by yeahxitsxsarah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well hopefully the "mean click" don't beat people up but you can set higher standards for yourself by not playing into their ignorance. People who make fun of other people are ignorant and jealous because they want to make themselves look better. Basically the big word for that is INSECURE. You can show them, as well as your friend, that you don't have time to waist by worrying about what they think of you. Because if you think about it. Don't you think you're better than that?
2007-07-27 13:54:50 · answer #1 · answered by Kimberly B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that that is so awesome for sticking up for her. More power to you and chances they will not hate on you. And if they do then just ignore them, they are posers so you should just let them say whatever they are going to say and laugh about it with your friend. People who do this are just so stupid so don't pay any attention to them. If it gets really serious then seek out help from adults. I hope all is well and this helped a little.
2007-07-27 20:54:41 · answer #2 · answered by NONAME 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they say something to you just say to them (tell me something what did she do to you) that way you will put them on the spot in front of everyone and when they can't come up with an answer everyone will see how mean those girls are and take your side.
2007-07-27 21:13:45 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just quit worrying about it and be a bigger person, ignore them and they will see that their stupidity isn't worth the struggle... and if something seems really out of control you need to speak with an adult or a police officer.
2007-07-27 21:12:59 · answer #4 · answered by pixiecat23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mainly, you cannot avoid someone being an idiot. Just dont respond like an idiot.
If someone starts writing crap like that about you, let your friends stick up for you (if you stick up for yourself it doesn't look as good). HOWEVER, dont have them confront it... confronting people like that just gives them validation for what they do and adds to their ego... if I had my way I'd lock them all up in a room together and make them deal with their own vanity.
2007-07-27 20:54:09 · answer #5 · answered by J T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont pay attention to them and make the girl that is being hatted on feel welcomed. if you go back to scool and the others are macking fun of you just dont pay attention to them. after a while they will warm up to you and respect you and your friend alot more.
2007-07-27 20:55:28 · answer #6 · answered by woods123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trying talking to them and see what happens otherwise get the coppa involved.
2007-07-27 20:54:15 · answer #7 · answered by Leona 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont care what they think! eventually theyll stop if you arent bothered by what they do, they wont get the attention they want and theyll leave you alone.
2007-07-27 20:51:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell theose b*****s to f*** off!!! they cant say who ur friends r either theyre jeleous and need someone to put down because if someone put them down they would be scared!!!! anyone who does that is a b****!
2007-07-27 20:54:49 · answer #9 · answered by !!!!!!!!!!!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her along until the drama is over with for good .
2007-07-27 20:55:15 · answer #10 · answered by moon goddess 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋