2007-07-27 11:48:33 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Nope. Not at all. You'll gain nothing for a childish act like that. The way I see it is that it's far more productive to talk about what's really going on...work through things together.... then get it on! =)
2007-07-27 11:52:20 · answer #1 · answered by ☆ Heavenly ☆ 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Under most circumstances, yes. If she is so mad that she honestly does not want to have relations with her husband, than she does not have to. It is her choice, and her right to say no at any time. If she is withholding relations out of spite, however, then no, I don't think it is okay...that will just further the problem.
2007-07-27 11:55:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would never withhold "relations" from my husband. However, my husband is a wonderful man, and I hardly ever get mad at him!
2007-07-30 21:07:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's her body and if she doesn't want "relations", as you say, which is actually very tactful but still kind of pathetic, then if you take it from her and/or give it to her then we all know what that would be. No means no, if someone does not want 'relations', then it's their right and responsibility to say no. (And refuse). If the person still does it, then even to a male it would be, 'you know what'. So if you can't see why it IS ok, alright, and fine for someone to 'withhold relations' from someone else, then I honestly and truly do not know what to say.
All 'N' all it IS ANYONE'S choice and right and option to say 'no'. if she's upset and does not want it, then she doesn't not have to have it, or give it. Enough said
2007-07-27 15:56:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Now why do you think a woman should have sex with her husband if she is mad with him? Seems silly to me that you could think she should. I know if I am mad at my husband the last thing I would want is to make love to him. Sex is something that you do with your other half because you want to be close to them, but if you have pissed your wife off I am sure she would much rather be at the other end of the room to you throwing darts at you.
So the answer is of course it is okay!
2007-07-27 11:55:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Most women do not withhold sex out of revenge because they are angry. It is just that when they are angry at him, she usually can't stand him to touch her. A man can't do something to make his wife angry and then think she will want to have sex with him. Most women are not like men, they don't just have sex with no emotional feelings, we equate love with sex so when we are hurt or angry we don't want that type of physical contact until he apologizes and makes up for hurting us or making us angry.
2007-07-27 17:06:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not under any circumstances! Withholding is a smoldering poison that serves only to incrementally destroy a relationship.
2007-07-27 11:53:28 · answer #7 · answered by bandit 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
A person can withhold sex for any reason, it's not an obligation.
2007-07-27 11:52:57 · answer #8 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
not so much 'withholding' as the fact that pi**ing me off doesn't exactly turn me on!!
2007-07-27 11:52:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've never understood the reasoning in that. Why would I want to deprive myself?
2007-07-27 11:55:29 · answer #10 · answered by The Trooper 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋