Sometime there is no POLITE way of saying get out.
The best way is to be direct and say I want you to move out by Friday. I don't want to argue, I don't want to fight this is not a negotiation. I want you to move out on Friday.
Be direct and firm. If they attempt to argue or make excuses then put your hand out like a traffic cop, look them in the eye and repeat Friday out. Say " I want my life back without you here".
Have faith in yourself and how strong you can be. You can do it. Don't go weak.
Good Luck
2007-07-27 12:28:06
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answered by Big Red 6
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*Alright I don't know if this helps at all, and what the living situation is. Like if you own the place or if you all are dividing the rent etc. etc. Anyways here is what I found. If you want more details and what not however I suggest that you go seek professional advice from the courts or a landlord type or person who would know the laws where you live at.*
.**Good luck, and sorry to hear you have such a crummy roommate...I hope it all works in your favor though!**
1.Determine valid reasons under local laws for evicting the tenant, such as failure to pay rent, repeated violations or the breach of a lease clause.
2.Give the tenant adequate written notice that you are terminating his or her tenancy, following state and local eviction procedures.
3.File a lawsuit to evict the tenant if the tenant does not move or correct violations after receiving a termination notice.
4.Realize the tenant may mount a defense against your eviction lawsuit, possibly increasing the time of the eviction process.
Tips & Warnings:
If you win the eviction lawsuit, most states require that tenants receive a written notice to vacate the premises, delivered and served by a law enforcement officer.
Landlords who know their legal rights and comply with local landlord-tenant laws stand the best chance of successfully evicting a tenant.
Consult with local rental housing authorities or a knowledgeable real estate attorney about proper eviction procedures under your state and local laws.
Comply exactly with local and state eviction procedures to avoid costly delays or mistakes in the eviction process.
Avoid taking illegal actions against a tenant, including "self-help" eviction measures like changing the tenant's locks, physically removing the tenant's possessions, or taking retaliatory actions against the tenant.
2007-07-27 18:26:52
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answered by Murphy's Law 5
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i took the question as they live there and you are trying to kick them out........so I would tell them that I think I am too old to have a house mate at this time. I think I should settle down.
2007-07-27 18:17:36
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answered by eri 2
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Tell them you have somewhere important to go and tell them they can't stay here while you're gone. Don't tell them where it is though, tell them it's personal.. After your guest leave walk or drive around the block and then come back into your house.
2007-07-27 18:27:17
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answered by Brian Sanders 5
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.Whatever way you do it, they will never think it is polite, or right. So go ahead and do whatever you feel is right.
You can explain that the conditions are not healthy for you,
and it is the best way to save whatever is left of friendship. But I think it will be in vain.
2007-07-28 04:47:29
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answered by Marla ™ 5
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Tell them that you don't think that the living arrangements are working out and that you think that it might be best if they found someplace else to live.
2007-07-27 18:18:45
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answered by Anonymous
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I dont worry about niceties I just say Get out in my best terminator voice
2007-07-27 18:16:20
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answered by Anonymous
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"This arrangement just isn't working for me anymore so I'd appreciate it if you would find other accommodations within the next 30 days.
(If it's a rental arrangement, I think you have to give them 30 days notice.)
-MM
2007-07-27 18:22:39
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answered by Anonymous
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Some people have to be told straight out "I would appreciate it it you would move out". Don't beat around it or they will be there forever.
2007-07-27 18:26:46
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answered by Silvio 5
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I'm tired gonna have to ask you to leave so I can get some kip
2007-07-27 18:15:58
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answered by ? 3
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