How can I become less shy or help to get over my shyness? I don't really want to talk people's ears off, but so I can feel more comfortable talking to new people?
2007-07-27 10:38:59 · 7 answers · asked by Lindsalei 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Well, I wouldn't recommend a speech or trying to teach a class, but this little exercise worked for me. Try talking a walk around your neighboorhood, place of business, or even school and just start by saying, "Hello" "Good morning." or "How are you?" to one person, a stranger, a grocer, cashier, even if they look at you funny, more often than not, they will smile and answer you.
The more you do it, the easier it gets to start the conversation, especially if you do it with a smile.
2007-07-27 10:47:27 · answer #1 · answered by Yankee Micmac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had to take speech classes when I was in college and it helped me get over being shy
2007-07-27 17:47:08 · answer #2 · answered by slim 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all shyness is sexy. but for yourself...just start out like you are waiting on a customer at work...and you dont care what they think. sounds silly? it's worked for many people.
2007-07-27 17:54:55 · answer #3 · answered by debbiejingles55 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if your a guy like me start lifting weights. the strength and power i gained along with the looks greatly increased my confidence around strangers. if your not into that kind of thing try meeting new people through friends you already have. i found its easier to relax and be yourself when your around friends. hope it helps.
2007-07-27 17:49:29 · answer #4 · answered by soviet_burrito 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Practice meditation and Yoga.
2007-07-28 09:56:23 · answer #5 · answered by d_r_siva 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stand naked in the mirror as you talk to yourself.
Change your point of view.
2007-07-27 17:48:37 · answer #6 · answered by Starte Christ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i really like suthorn yankee's answer, i think that would work!! good luck!!
2007-07-27 17:48:53 · answer #7 · answered by dani 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋