We've both heard different things from the grapevine, but we just want to be sure. When you have sex for the first time, does it bleed, and hurt? Some people say they can hardley stand the pain, and some say they bleed a TON.
Is this true?
We're just kind of confused.
2007-07-27 10:31:32 · 16 answers · asked by christinaa. 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Yes, we are going to remain abstinent.
2007-07-27 10:43:21 · update #1
Your first time can be painful or uncormfortable if you are not ready for penetration. To be ready you need to be sexually arroused and lubricating. If you fear being hurt and tense up you will not have a good experience. The bleeding comes from the tearing of the hyman or maiden head aka your cherry. Some are thick some are thin. And still some have been torn long ago doing exercises (if your into althletics).
Some people bleed a lot, some a little, and some not at all. Everyone is different and so will your experiences. Just take your time and be safe, and you should have a great time.
2007-07-27 10:40:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every one will be different. Some women feel very little pain and some feel a lot. Some women bleed more than others, though it should not ever be excessive. My first experience, after penetration, I had to ask my husband to stop because it was hurting too badly. We tried again each day and while it still hurt, it slowly went away as I healed. I bled slightly, not much, but it did stain the sheets.
2007-07-27 17:39:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are the both of you?? Yes there is some pain and bleeding Not every women will feel the same effects. I hope the two of you wait until your sure your in love and want to devote your life to one person. Casual sex is a risky thing these days!!!
2007-07-27 17:42:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, When you have intercourse for the first time, and the male's penis goes into the females vagina, it will usually penetrate the women's hymen, a piece of skin located inside the vagina, and can be popped easily. Usually after having intercourse. But it can easily be popped or broken by other things like tampons, fingering, etc.
This is also known as "Getting your cherry popped".
And yes, it usually always hurts because apart of the skin is being broken, but don't worry its natural to be broken.
Take care,
xx
2007-07-27 17:38:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first time you have sex (intercorse) , how thick your hyman and how tight your vagina is will determine how much bleeding and how much pain you will have. For the record, if your first partner knows you are a virgin, and goes slowly so you become aroused and your vagina becomes lubricated it will be easier. Just remember that you won't necessarily have pain. You probably will bleed a bit, but not as heavily as a regular period.
2007-07-27 17:39:00 · answer #5 · answered by kiwibarb11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i beleave most girls will blead after the first time , called the cherry sometimes, but as a young girl you might have hurt yourself down there, have you ever bleed from a bike fall or being kicked, or have you started your young lady period?, and some hurts if the male does take his time and prepair the ladyfor sex. you know hands , kissing makeing out real hot..
2007-07-27 17:39:20 · answer #6 · answered by Sonny H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the person. For some it hurts alot and for others it doesn't hurt at all. Some bleed and some don't. Usually it depends on the thickness of their hymen and whether or not they still have one.
2007-07-27 19:14:54 · answer #7 · answered by catsmeowjrk2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In some cases you might bleed a little but in most cases you don't and if you do then something might be wrong and in most cases it does hurt the first few times.
2007-07-27 17:39:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it does kinda hurt at first and yes you will bleed but not much. and if the guy knows or semi know what is doing then it shouldnt hurt so much that you cant stand it and you deffintly shouldnt bleed alot if you have any more questions please email me and maybe go to your mother she might actually be happy you want to talk before you do anything
2007-07-27 17:37:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sum ppl do others don't it all depends on ur hymen... (thin tissue near da opening of ur vagina)
Is usually broken da first time of sex. intercourse.
But sumtimes tampons or athletic activites can cause it to break......bleeding varies from women to women.
Heck, sum women aren't even born wit it.
Also since u don't have sex.....ur Private Part is not as loose as women who do. So yea u kno.
2007-07-27 17:36:44 · answer #10 · answered by Ana♥Banana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋