How can I tell if my wife is cheating.??? What are some tell tale signs???? LADIES THIS IS FOR YOU.?

Answer 1

not wanting to have sex, be affectionate toward you, and say I love you, hide cell phone bills, lie about daily activities, and you should have a some what of an idea.

Answer 2

1.if she doesn't want you to touch her.
2.if she looks happy when you are on your way out.
3.if she looks extra pretty and much more detailed than usual when she leaves the house.
4.when she doesn't even get angry with you for doing the same things that use to irritate her.
5.when you don't have a clue as to what her day entails and she's very relaxed even though you too may not be on the same page.
6.when she either cringes or takes an annoying breath when you come into the same room
7.when she is absolutely glowing even though the two of you are not as intimate as usual
I'm just guessing...

Answer 3

From a guy: a change in her pattern of being away from home for no reason that you can discern.

Her asking what your schedule is, when she did not used to.

You probably need to talk to her about feeling like the two of you not feeling as connected as in the past and that you want to spend more time with her and reconnect. Perhaps you have noticed that she is feeling this way too and this could open up a dialogue to improve things. So, she might not be cheating. If she is disinterested and blows you off...I would worry.

Answer 4

She acts cooler towards you, Has a new found interest in her appearance , starts buying new undergarments. Sits around with a smug smile on her face. If you're feeling it she probably is cheating and you need to confront her about this. Just remember people cheat because the other person makes them feel good about themselves.

Answer 5

One thing could definitely tell you she's cheating. If she is taking more then one shower a day. Also if she is missing for hours or she is using excuses to get out of the house. I hope she isn't I hate a cheater. Good luck!

Answer 6

If she wears fancy underwear tro leave the house but not with you, if she does not show interest in kissing you or having sex with you, if she runs to the shower the minute she comes home, if her call records in her cell phone are always empty, if she hides emails, starts taking too long to do errands, gets mad if you ask where she was, starts having to work late a LOT.

*i hope for your sake she is not, maybe she is just going through a difficult time? Look at her cell phone and start checking out her answers.

Answer 7

She doesn't want to have sex

She accuses YOU of being unfaithful, is suddenly overly jealous, etc.

She makes up random excuses for why she can't be home.

She offers too much information/details for where shes been or why without having been asked

Her behavior has become nervous and fidgetty.

Especially the first 2 - those are a dead giveaway.

Answer 8

When my exwife was cheating on me the signs were subtle. Like guys calling her at home for dates! Going on vacation to Europe-without me! With this broad Armed Forces Day had a whole new meaning!

Answer 9

OKay,
I'm no expert on the signs of cheating but these are some that i have seen from cheaters:
1. Lack of interest in your marriage
2. Leaving and coming home at different hours.
3. Tired
# Your spouse seems bored. Bored with you, with job, with kids, with hobbies, with life in general.

# Your spouse seems to want danger or thrills in his/her life.

# There is considerably less intimacy in your relationship. Your sex life is practically non-existent.

# Your spouse has a low self-esteem.

# You notice your spouse has a sense of confusion about self.

# You spouse has become lazy, especially around the house.

# You can't get your spouse to communicate with you.

# Your spouse gets very defensive if you mention infidelity or affairs.

# Your spouse is suddenly more attentive than usual.

# Your mate is working longer hours at work.

# Your spouse is dressing nicer, looking nicer.

# You notice charges on credit card statement that don't make sense.

# Your spouse is indifferent to family events like birthdays and holidays.

# You find your partner has been lying to you about a variety of things.

# Money becomes more of an issue between the two of you.

# He/she doesn't want to go anywhere or do anything with you anymore.

# You can't even get your mate to fight with you.

# You feel as if you are being avoided.

# Your partner abandons religious faith.

# Your spouse seems more secretive.
I would just recommend talking with her that would be the best way to find out.


1) You find birth-control pills in her medicine cabinet, and you've had a vasectomy.
2) She sets up a new e-mail account and doesn't tell you about it.
3) She goes to the store for groceries and comes home 5 hours later.
4) She buys herself new underwear.
5) She sets up a separate cell phone account that is billed to her office.
6) The toilet bowl seat is up, and when you left home it was down.
7) She's unconventionally spending money on new clothes.
8) She stops confiding in you and seeking advice from you.
9) She stops wearing her wedding ring.

Answer 10

I know you want to hear from women but if you really think shes's cheating and not being paranoid there are plenty of private investigators who specialize in surveillance. Also, there's a program called spectorsoft you can buy and install in your computer to see if she is cheating with anyone online. I'm sure this can be hidden but check their ads. a lot of parents use these programs to make sure their kids aren't being targeted by pedophiles.Once you get proof she's cheating I hope you screw her out of alimony. peace!

Answer 11

Often a guilty person will take to accusing their partner of cheating. That is one sign. Is she going to new places, or maybe hanging out with new people, dressing differently or acting unusual?