Are you sorry you ever got married?

Question

I'v never been maried but me and my lady are thinking about it.

Answer 1

yes and no. with every marriage, there are always certain times you wonder if you married that right person and if it was all a big mistake. but then again, if i hadn't gotten married, i wouldn't have my children. and they mean the world to me. just like everything else in life, it's a risk, but it's worth it.

Answer 2

Well I am divorced, and I sorry that I ever got married, no not really. I mean the end of the marriage was hard and I hope no one has to go through what I went through, but I have some good memories and I have a beautiful 3 and half year old boy, so that is all that matters to me right now. If I met someone and it was right, I would do it again.

Answer 3

Sometimes.

But just for a second.

You have to remember that marriage is two souls becoming one; a partnership of equals
where the woman helps the man
and the man helps the woman.

And that takes work!

Love each other as you love yourselves, and you'll be happy
(on most days, anyway - no marriage is perfect!)

Remember why you fell in love with each other
especially when times are hard
and make each other laugh.
Hug and kiss each other, have great sex, great meals, great conversations and nights out on the town together.

If you have/plan on having kids, make sure they spend quality time with both of you
and don't let your lady turn into your mother!!
Plenty of people who love each other end up hating the **** outta each other because the wife turned into the husband's mom when she had a kid.

I wish the best for you both
and I don't think you'll regret it.

So many people and things have come and gone since I met my husband
but he's still there.
He's my best friend and I love him!!

Answer 4

You might be in for the surprise of how much work it is, but for the most part the couples I know (including myself) will tell you they're happier w/their partner than they ever were without them. You can research statistics online too. You have to keep it in mind that it's not fun all the time, and takes a lot of work. Premarital counseling is sometimes a good way to make sure you two are on the same page on all types of subjects.

Answer 5

No, I am sorry I got divorced. He was the love of my life and we screwed up due to tragic circumstances. Almost twenty years later I have never met anyone who I would considering marrying. I wish we all could learn to appreciate what we have more. It never seems to hit us how good something is until we loose it.

Answer 6

Yes, in some ways I was glad ( divorced now ). but i cant help but thinking how different things could have turned out in my life, had i not been marreid. it gets real tempting to wish i had never gotten married, but i try to have the postive attitude that it was all for a reason.

Answer 7

No, marriage is great as long as you talk about what your life will be like and your expectations. Religion, kids, money, in-laws, careers, dreams, how you will spend your free time, politics, division of labor at home, etc. These are some of the practical things that count.

Answer 8

I have been with my husband for 5 years, and have been married for three of those years. I definately don't regret it! If you find the person that is right for you, someone that you know you can spend the rest of your life with, without a doubt, you won't regret it either.

Answer 9

No. I'm actually sorry I did NOT get married. I feel like I'll never find a woman like that again:/

Answer 10

Some days are better than others but I wouldn't have done it any other way. When you start talking about, you'll know. If you have any doubt at all, then maybe you should wait a while. There's nothing wrong with waiting.