2007-07-27 08:26:08 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, live with someone.
2007-07-27 08:28:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how each marriage fail. If both fail for the same reason, then there a problem that needs to be fixed. For example, so people marry only because they are afraid of being alone, or because they see friends and other family members married. Now if you love the idea of marriage and your truly in love with this person then why not . Third time could be the charm.
2007-07-27 09:30:14 · answer #2 · answered by madblk22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a person wants to be marry ed and they feel they are great marriage Material. Try until you get the right person for you. It may take 4 or more tries, but they should give of because two failed.
2007-07-27 08:36:11 · answer #3 · answered by candy c 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They should seek as many chances as they want. Besides, not every marriage that ends in divorce is a "failed" marriage - and there are plenty of people who fail in their marriages and stay married anyway. No need to judge someone based solely on the amount of their divorce certificates.
2007-07-27 08:30:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think seek is not the best word choice. I wouldn't suggest "seeking" for a third marriage, but if the right one came along I wouldn't suggest passing it by. It might also be wise to come to terms with finding happiness "alone" first. After all only you can make yourself happy, other people just make life more interesting and fun.
2007-07-27 08:31:24 · answer #5 · answered by Gina Day 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say "yes". I had 2 failed marriages and had vowed to never get married again. I had a friend for over a year and even though he cared for me, it never went beyond friendship due to me being scared of another failed relationship. We did finally get together and married. We now have a beautiful son and have been married for 7 1/2 years. This has been the longest relationship I have been in and even though it has been rocky, it has all been worth. My motto, "you will never know unless you try."
2007-07-27 08:34:09 · answer #6 · answered by witchy_mom2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They should first try to figure out WHY the previous marrages failed ant what they can do to improve the chance of success next time. In fact that is they reason many 2nd or 3rd marrages dont work is the person fails to aknowledge their part in it and go on without trying to fix themselves. As for another chance i personally believe that no one should give up on finding love.
2007-07-27 08:30:32 · answer #7 · answered by Alyssa C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that it depends on "why" they failed their marriages. If that person is the main problem (because of cheating or something else), then a next one would fail too, but some failures are not dependent of a person, so I would say it makes sense to try again, if we realise the errors of the past.
2007-07-27 08:35:15 · answer #8 · answered by Damokles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take a good look at why the first two marriages failed before I tried again.
2007-07-27 08:28:23 · answer #9 · answered by 飞行高 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Red Karma. You are choosing the wrong people. Maybe you are doing it unknowingly, but you are doing it. I realised after my second marriage, that I needed time out to work on myself. I didnt go into counselling, but I took 5 years to live with myself without a man around and I learnt a lot about myself. I realised that all the men in my life were needy in some area......and the men who werent, who were confident and handsome I steered clear of. I didnt do it intentionally, it was something that just used to happen. I didnt really realise I was doing it until I took the time out to learn about myself more. I realised the reason I was making such bad choices was simply because of my lack of self esteem. I didnt think I was good enough for the successful, confident, handsome man. I am now involved with a man who is totally my equal. He is the type of guy I would never have been interested in before. He is my emotional, sexual and intellectual equal......that was something I never had before. Had I not taken the time out to be by myself, I would never have picked up that I was the one making the poor choices. I worked on my self esteem and realised I was important and I needed a man who was worthy of me. I no longer wanted a man who needed "fixing".....I needed my equal. Maybe give yourself a bit of time, and/or counselling to work on your own issues. Once you know yourself you will be able to answer your own question. Take care.
2007-07-27 08:38:28 · answer #10 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, only make sure your choice in a partner isn't the same as the last two. We tend to keep tiring with the same type of mate. Wrong, find someone TOTALLY different. You just may be surprise. If you don't try then go ahead and rock on the porch by yourself!
2007-07-27 08:33:43 · answer #11 · answered by Rukeann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋