My best friends wife just walked out on him and his 2 kids. well last night she did and he just called me to tell me now...i am kinda up set he didnt call me last night. i guess she didnt really like walk out but she told him she didnt want to be with him or there kids anymore as she felt that there relationship wasnt going anywhere and she didnt really love him and doesnt have mother feelings for there children. how can a mother not have mother feelings for a child they gave birth to? he is so distroyed and hurt. and i dont know what to do i want to ask him to come live with me and my B/f and kids but i dont know know if that would be to much. do you think it would only make him saddier to come and stay with us....seeing how my b/f is still her and were still in love...would it hurt him do you think.
2007-07-27 08:00:42 · 1 answers · asked by Sweetypie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No you shouldnt ask him to move in with you and your boyfriend. Unless he has no where to go.
He obviously has a place he is living now. If his wife wants to leave him and the kids, then she can move out and let him keep the kids and the place they live in.
He needs to contact a lawyer if he is certain that she wants out of the relationship, she claims she doesnt want the kids.
Well he needs to get custody of the kids. If she is Serious then he wont have to fight for them.
Just be a good friend and let him talk to you about what is going on. Try not to fix things for him. That is something he is going to have to figure out. If he asks for help, if you can, then help him.
BTW, they could have had a big fight and things will work out for them. People say mean things when fighting.
Good luck, faith
2007-07-27 17:27:25 · answer #1 · answered by faith♥missouri 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋