ok i got my period last month on june 27 and 2day is the 27th and nothing has came yet.. my back is killing me and i have cramps and tender hurting breast.. the other night i woke up in the middle of the night and had major cramps, drank a midol and i kind of felt nauseated.. i have had protected sex (with condom).. i am kind of stressing this alil.. maybe thats y it hasnt came?? need help?? oo btw im 21..
one more thing.. my b.f wants 2 have sex 2day.. do u think thats bad with this whole situation going on?? we havent done it for about 2 weeks now.. (we've had alot things 2 do lately)..
2007-07-27 07:18:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Don't strees. That will definately make it late! No cycle is perfect all the time.
Orgasm will help with cramps, so it's up to you about the sex. it probably would help you feel better.
2007-07-27 09:13:42 · answer #1 · answered by catsmeowjrk2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've had a lot to do lately, that could be a big reason it hasn't arrived yet. I've had a period or two that were late. Soaking in a hot bath seems to work for me. Stressing about it not coming can delay it even further (mother nature is a cruel, cruel woman). I don't see sex being bad, just use protection. The likelihood of pregnancy is low as long as you've been using protection every time and there haven't been any leaks or breaks in the condoms. Try to calm down for now, easier said than done, I know, if it still hasn't arrived by next week go ahead and take an at home pregnancy test.
2007-07-27 14:25:56 · answer #2 · answered by eyes_the_color_of_insanity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are going to start your period soon. All those symptoms are a sign.
So do you feel like having sex?
If you don't feel well, you should tell him and if he cares about you he won't want to.
Sometimes people skip their period, especially during times of stress.
If you don't have it by the end of next month, you should see a doctor.
Do you want to get pregnant? If you don't care, don't get stressed out. If you definitely don't want to then go on birth control. You are old enough to be responsible for your own body. And if you get pregnant the baby is your responsibility, and yours alone, unless you get married.
He can dump you anytime in the meantime, don't chance it.
If he is not the marrying type, then dump him and go on to something better. You are an adult and you can do what you want.
2007-07-27 14:27:47 · answer #3 · answered by Tigger 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you wait until you get your period or take a pregnancy test. Remember even if you did use a condom it is not 100% effective even when used right. Even if there is a pin prick hole in the condom it would be enough for sperm to get out and us not seeing it with the naked eye.
My sister in alw got pregnant and they used a condom and she was on the pill- go figure. I mean those things don't happen that often, but it isn't impossible.
I suggest you take a pregnancy test.
2007-07-27 14:22:57 · answer #4 · answered by hsmommy06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop your stress and maybe that way, your period will come, otherwise you´re pregnant, you have to know the condom could broke and symptoms of pregnancy are just the same as PMS and cramping and bach aches, I would make a test to be sure, or just relax, maybe your period isn´t coming due to stress
Good Luck!!
;D
2007-07-27 14:24:26 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Madison♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you stressing so much? Periods are irregular---and that is normal. Sometimes they'll come every 28 days, but a lot of time they will come sooner or later. Yes, you can have sex---just be prepared that may cause your period to start up.
2007-07-27 14:20:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you could be pregnant. Remember that condoms are not 100% effective! I suggest you take a pregnancy test, just to be on the safe side.
2007-07-27 14:30:06 · answer #7 · answered by Rei-chan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you used the condom correctly it is unlikely you are pregnant. Women I know used to joke about "jump starting" their periods by having sex about the time it was due
2007-07-27 14:22:06 · answer #8 · answered by jonnyraven 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would say, quit worrying and go ahead and have sex, it may make your period start, that happens alot, but if your not wanting to have sex, because your afraid you might be pregnant, well, go ahead, because if you are, you wont be getting pregnant now, lol.... just try to stop stressing, stress plays a major role in delayed menstrual cycles in women....
2007-07-27 14:32:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm, maybe you will get it tonight. sometimes your periods get irregular if you are under stress. just calm down and take a break.
2007-07-27 14:40:41 · answer #10 · answered by staccc. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋