We have only been married 4 years, since I was 17. Keep in mind I have a set of 3 year old twin boys and I just had a daughter 4 months ago. He said my butt is too big for my body but what do you think!? Should I go on an @ss diet?
http://www.myspace.com/alandra04
2007-07-27 07:05:44 · 15 answers · asked by Landra 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Okay ms ronidl76, and anyone else with a smart comment. Why would I want to know if a man is still interested in me, I didn't say I was single I said I was MARRIED! And happily If I do say so myself, I just wanted to see if other guys agree with my husband. And why are you commenting on my @ss n-e way hmmmm...
2007-07-27 07:21:49 · update #1
Just tell him its his fault if its too big and what he sees is what he gets. After three kids what the hell did he expect and I bet hes probably not the same as before either. Its your body and if you feelit needs some work here and there then do it by allmeans but dont do it for him alone
2007-07-27 07:28:05 · answer #1 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I didn't see the photo that you put on that site so I cant reply with how you look. I do want to say this though women who have three children in a short time will cause your butt to be a little big for a while. But that will change quickly chasing after those three little kids, and fast I might add. Hey, I just took a look at the picture, and you look fine to me. I don't really think he was serious about we he said do you? Tell him for me that, take a good look because you won't being seeing me this way for long. Good Luck, and enjoy those kids, and of course your husband too. Have a great marriage.
2007-07-27 08:05:23 · answer #2 · answered by Butch. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't been to the site and I really don't want to see it, but the fact of the matter is if you don't want to stay fat, then get those babies in a stroller and start walking 30 minutes or more every day if the weather permits. You're still young and your body is still changing, but that's no excuse to sit around idle and stuff your face full of twinkies every day.. Get up and get moving. And if your husband still says you're fat, then you need to take one of the other answer person's advice on here and give him a fat lip. BTW...What's an @ss diet anyway?????
2007-07-27 13:07:17 · answer #3 · answered by lilgraygal 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't rely on the advise of others to feel good about yourself, you know sometimes people just say crap not knowing how it effects another person. I wasted most of my youth talking about how fat I was, and now when I look back at pictures I wasn't even fat, I was beautiful and I wasted it hating myself because of coments like the one you are complaining about. your body looks great and many women would love to have it especially after having 3 kids.....you should always constantly work on yourself to keep your self up......so eat healthy for shinny skin, more energy, and piece of mind.
2007-07-27 07:27:24 · answer #4 · answered by Racy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please! Is this the best excuse you can come up with to show strangers your big a$$? Get over yourself. You even went as far as having that type of picture on your Myspace. I think you're forgetting that you're only 21, and you already have 3 kids. I think you're asking this just to see if a man would still want you. Get over it. You're a mother now; start acting like it!
2007-07-27 07:10:48 · answer #5 · answered by ron-D 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I am sorry but if he married you when you were 17, then he should have known you were not even done becoming a woman yet. Having babies does not mean your body was done maturing. That's the risk you take marrying so young.
2007-07-27 07:09:43 · answer #6 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You just had a child. You will probably lose more weight later on. With 3 children you should get plenty of exercise.
2007-07-27 07:12:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't go. If you'r husband told you, you getting fat it's mean all world on anorecsia,it's bad for health.But if you like it how you look ,it's good. It's not allways about what man want.
2007-07-27 07:16:56 · answer #8 · answered by Lorena 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No dont go on a diet juust watch what you eat in i never heared of a *** diet
2007-07-27 07:23:59 · answer #9 · answered by Amazing nonspeaking mime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please.........
i just had a set of twins too 4 mos ago. and my *** still looks a jello-e common its normal dont pay attention to him just eat healthy.
and by the way make him think of it this way.......more cushion for the pushin'
2007-07-27 07:12:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋