bullying problem. please read and help?

Question

ok so these girls have been bullying me for a while(as in almost a year). these girls used to be my best friends, but i noticed for quite a while(try months) that they havent been treating me right. they used to just corner up on me and make fun of me,i just got so sick of it. i finally cracked, and told them they were treating me wrong. after that, i thought maybe they would change their ways, but they just stopped being friends with me and started throwing stuff at me on the bus and humiliating me in front of everyone. i told my mother but she says to ignore it and to laugh at them. im so sick of being so strong all the time. they continue to do it. i am dreading the beginning of the school year cause i will see them everywhere, at lunch, on the bus, in classes even after school on the sports team. ever since then, all my other friends have been treating me diff, i think they just got tired of seeing my sad face and asking me what was wrong. im so lonely and so depressed.

Answer 1

i agree with your mom. you need to not let it bug you. and you say "how?". well, its not that hard, you know what theyre going to say is mean, so dont even listen. ive gone through that kinda stuff so many times. these snotty girls will turn your friends on you, make rumors, or even make your bf brake up with you. ive been through it all. and ive learned that those kinda girls live to do that to people, so if it doesnt bug that person, they move on to ruin some one elses life. they say something mean to you, hit em back with a good comeback. dont be depressed about it, thats what they try to make you do. just have fun and dont worry about them
be strong and hang in there, i hope my advice helped

if it ever gets too bad, message me, or if you just get lonely

Answer 2

How about talking to each one of the alone. Chances are, there's a "leader" and everyone else follows what they do. Talk to the ones that aren't the leader and try to find out what's going on. Maybe you said or did something to upset one of them without even knowing it. In that case, just apologize (even if you don't REALLY feel like it). Chances are, that'll end the problem.
One thing you have to understand, people only treat you how you LET them. Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself. I'm not talking about exposing all of their dirty little secrets or anything like that, but why don't you try hanging out with some of your other friends? Have a BLAST with them, make sure what you're doing is the talk of the school, then start inviting one or two of your old best friends to join you (the followers). Chances are, they'll ditch the evil one & you can all have fun together again.
Being happy is a CHOICE, just remember that

Answer 3

Keep in mind, people are watching these girls be everything that a quality girl is NOT. They may side with them for now because they don't want to get bullied too, but in the long run, NO ONE will like these girls except themselves (and pretty soon that'll wear off too). Try to just avoid them for now. Don't try to start any fights - those just get you in trouble. But try to stay away from them. Don't be afraid to tell teachers what's going on. It shouldn't be overlooked, but sometimes things like that are. Not purposely, but sometimes it is. Bring it to their attention. Teachers are there to help you learn AND keep you safe. Let them know what's going on. The bullying won't last forever. Keep your chin up, k?:)

If you're feeling lonely, feel free to message me - I'm pretty much alone at work most of the day, so I wouldn't mind having someone to e-mail with:) Take care!

Answer 4

I been bullied i like you too, so as my daughter. What i did is just being myself. I just ignored them. I did what your mother ask you to do, so as my daughter. I didn't laugh at them. I just ignored. For a while its kinda fed up too, but later on they are bored with me, coz there's no respond. They just leave me alone, i never show off my sad face too, i just be myself, i will always read something or just as nothing happen keep talking to someone like i didn't hear if they talk to me. Some of my friends like my attitude some not. For me i dnt care much, i just want to be myself and others have to respect me as me. I'm alone for awhile but not that long.
I think try what your mother suggested is the best idea, its easy on you too.

Answer 5

first of all do no longer pay attention to the baseball bat guy. Cuz that's in basic terms a dumb concept. 2d do tell an person,the central or the instructor. Ask to have as plenty seperation from them as achievable. yet in addition do no longer enable them to get to you too plenty. Bullies are in basic terms people who're insecure approximately some thing occurring of their life. tell an person and keep away from them. desire this helped.

Answer 6

Suneyedgirl, only you can decide how you will feel. Your mother is right, ignore them like they do not live and breath. Like they are invisible. Don't look at them, don't talk to them, exit whenever they are around if possible. That will take away the fuel for their fire of tormenting you. If they get no reaction from you, that will take away their morbid fun. The more you react, the more they will keep doing it. You don't need them anyway. Find people who like you for your self and if you can't then like your self. To thine own self be true. Treat others how you want to be treated and you will like yourself and others will naturally like you too.

Answer 7

OMFG. you have to fight fire with fire!! Now, please don't tell your mother i suggested this, but they won't stop until you kick their ***!!! talk bad about them, do what their doing to you!! And if you're not a outgoing as i am, show absolutely no interest in them what so ever. Pretend you don't here them. Walk away when they stand around you. Pretend you don't notice them throwing stuff at you. They'll stop, once they figure out you don't give a ****. They're probaly just jealous anyway!!!!!!!!!

Answer 8

they probably have nothing better to do & they're not your real friends. literally (not to be mean, but) find some friends. find people with whom you share a common interest. you should ignore them. make them realize what they're doing is wrong. join some clubs, join a sports team. get involved and meet more people.

Answer 9

for get them, tranfer from school or something. But if you show them that it bothers you, they are going to continue to bother you. Try to look happy and laugh at them from time to time and watch them leave you alone.

Answer 10

aww go to church , it realli helpz , god wil help you in hard times okay , otherwise find a group of nice people, stay away from the bad rotten ones , they are sad u are not !