i kno this might sound perverted but im really not. im just curious. im 15 and ive been fingered a couple of times and both times i happened to not be on my period. but what happens when things start getting hot and heavy and i guy wants to finger me but im on my period?? what do i do??
2007-07-27 06:04:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Tell him you have your period and ask if he still wants to do it. Some guys will and some wont. it depends on the guy. just be honest with him.
2007-07-27 06:08:48 · answer #1 · answered by catsmeowjrk2000 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if YOU enjoy it and want him to do it, tell him you'd love him to, but it might be a little messy. Keep a couple of those Handi-Wipes with you when you see him during that time... If you would rather he not, then just tell him you're bleeding and have cramps, and can we hold off a few days... If he's a decent guy, he won't mind... Besides, there's all sorts of other skills to be practicing so it's not likely you'll run out things to do... ;-)
When I was your age, neither I nor any of my male friends (well, some of my female friends too for that matter), would EVER pass up a chance to get down with our girlfriends, no matter how messy things got. I always thought period sex was the absolute best thing ever... the extra lubrication made it a slippery dream...
Most likely he will take his cue from YOU... If you seem comfortable with the idea, or even eager, he will pick up on that and away you go...
Remember, one of these days it won't stop with heavy petting... Keep a couple condoms in your purse, and don't let them get more than a few months old before replacing them...
Have lots of fun and PLAY SAFE!
Best,
Ed, RN
2007-07-27 06:18:52 · answer #2 · answered by RNcalledEd 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let him know straight up that you have your period before things start to get really hot and heavy. It is a normal thing that happens to every girl, nothing to be embarassed about.
2007-07-27 06:21:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to let the guy know BEFORE things get hot and heavy.
2007-07-27 06:10:59 · answer #4 · answered by RSJ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are on your cycle. You 2 are old enough to be exploring one another's bodies so you should each be mature enough to handle that situation and wait the few days until you are not.
2007-07-27 06:07:26 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♫BlkButterfly♫♥ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if he wants blood on his fingers then i guess he can go for it.. if not then dont do anything on you period just kiss and if he wants to say no not today
2007-07-27 06:09:32 · answer #6 · answered by rua_88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you tell him no. or you can explain to him that you would love to let him, but you are on your period.
boys your age know what periods are (or should if they pay attn to family health class!!)
dont be shy, it jsut means you are a woman, and that is something to be proud of.
2007-07-27 06:11:02 · answer #7 · answered by Raychel 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just tell him you will give him a hj instead because you don't want to get fingered right now
2007-07-27 06:19:42 · answer #8 · answered by *H* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say no for his sake and run away
2007-07-27 06:07:07 · answer #9 · answered by Cody B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell him no, I am on my cycle. Plain and simple.
2007-07-27 06:06:56 · answer #10 · answered by Amanda 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋