I was wondering if any one can help me find a way to get my g/f best friend caught by her husband cheating. She is always interfering in our relationship, and wants my g/f to be single so she could have a partner in crime when she messes up on her husband. I know her husband he goes to the same gym as me. Is there a way I can set her up so that her husband catches her cheating on him.
2007-07-27 06:01:48 · 48 answers · asked by sincere 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Uh.... are we forgetting the old addage, Bro's Before Ho's
Oh man, you just gotta dime this d|ck in the azz, trick in the azz beeeyaaaatch out, and explain to him why, tell him its because its now interferring with your marriage, and hey, you're looking out for him.
2007-07-27 06:07:08 · answer #1 · answered by jeff the drunk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sincere, I am curious to know is your g/f the same ex-girlfriend you caught cheating on you about a month ago?
Why would you believe that getting your g/f's best friend caught by her husband cheating is the right way to go? How did it feel to you when you found out that you were being cheated on? Do you want this girls husband to feel the same feelings you felt by exposing his wife's betrayal? Dude, this is really not your place to make that call...I can honestly see you telling if you and the husband were friends because to be honest, if it was my friend being cheated on, I would not be aware of that and keep it from my "friend"...You don't even know this guy but want to expose his wife because she is "interfering" in your relationship...The only way that her interfering can have any kind of an impact on you and your g/f's relationship, is if you guys allow it to...
What happened in your life that has made you so insecure? I don't know you, but looking back at your questions is what made me derive at that conclusion which is what prompted me to ask the question...No offense!...
You really need to refocus...this friend of your g/f's is only a problem IF you allow her to be a problem...Sincere, it sounds like you are allowing her to be a problem...Stop it!...You are giving her way too much of your attention...WHAT YOU GIVE YOUR ATTENTION TO IS WHAT YOU GIVE POWER TO...Stop giving this girl and this situation so much power...You are pushing against what you don't want and while you are doing that, you are giving it power...So in essence what you are doing is slowly but surely allowing what you don't want to manifest itself into your reality...WHAT YOU RESIST WILL PERSIST...If you keep on this path your fear will become your reality!
Best wishes in dealing with this situation...
2007-07-27 06:53:58 · answer #2 · answered by Nik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the best way to work around this is on your relationship before you go messing with someone else's besides it would only make things worse. She would be single and would now more than ever want your girlfriend to partner up. Your girlfriend might get angry with you for the sake of her friend might even go as far as to dump you. Remember and remember well every action has a reaction. Sometimes positive or negative.
You have to work out your relationship first and this also would be testing the strength and trust as well as loyalty in your relationship. If my hubby had a friend like that I would try to get them to stop hanging out as well but I think your plan would not solve your problem.
2007-07-27 06:10:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Befriend her husband. Get tight with him. Find out where she goes to meet men (if she gets around to different guys) or find info about her boyfriend (if it's just one guy) and where she goes with him. Use the info you get to find a way to "happen" to run into them when you are with her husband.
Or, consider this, your girlfriend may hate you forever if she finds out you set that up. Also, if you get really close to her husband, you may not want to hurt him by putting him in that situation (not only did he find out about his wife's infidelity, but his new best friend was using him, too. a double-whammy).
Or, would you try to get a guy caught who you knew was cheating on his wife/girlfriend? Or would you say "guys will be guys"? Or would you just say it's none of your business and find some other way of dealing with your problem with him.
Just think, just because your wife's girlfriend gets caught cheating doesn't mean she's going to stop interfering with you and your girlfriend. She'll no longer have a husband to keep her occupied at all, so she'll be out all over the place and wanting your girlfriend to go out with her when she's out clubbing and hooking up. She'll just have more spare time on her hands to meddle in your business and try to influence your girlfriend.
2007-07-27 06:25:02 · answer #4 · answered by Lady in Red 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you are showing an example of ppl are very vengeful...so if you actually do set her up to get caught cheating and your gf finds out then you are just going to make your own situation worse...and what is worse is her husband could know already and you may not even put a dent in their relationship but damage your own severely
2007-07-27 06:06:44 · answer #5 · answered by Lylddlebit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not confront her about this. Let her know you may have to let the husband know about the cheating if she doesnt tell him. I dont think that two wrongs make a right, just be upfront and honest with everyone involved. If she is interfering with your relationship, she might just not be a good friend to have anyway...?
2007-07-27 06:08:11 · answer #6 · answered by T I 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is wrong man! Stay out of it! No matter if she does interferee with you and your girlfriends relationship. You allow her to interfer and you could put a stop to it. Don't stoop so low to cause a marriage to break up....her husband will find out if he doesn't already know.
2007-07-27 06:06:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drama, drama, drama. Why try to hide behind this soap-opera trap? Just tell the husband flat out that you know his wife is cheating, and offer the evidence you are aware of. If he wants to catch her at it, that's his business.
Also, talk with your wife about this woman's influence in your relationship - if you can't trust your own wife to stay with you, then maybe you shouldn't be married either.
2007-07-27 06:06:09 · answer #8 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would you wont to bring you,.re self to that level its her bis.
thats a nasty little web of deception
she will get hers in the end every thing you do unto others comes back to you in folds
if i was you i would find a new best friend after all you also know what made her cheat theres things us as friends need to mind our own ! and this is one
if you are truely a friend she is going to need you when s-h-i-t hits the fan if she stabs you in the back then maybe shes not a good best friend
2007-07-27 06:20:10 · answer #9 · answered by CINDYLOU 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes set her up with a buddy of yours or better yet her husband's that she doesn't know and make sure the husband the friend, and her are all at the same place and same time. Either that or camcord her or try getting on the show cheaters! haha.
2007-07-27 06:05:05 · answer #10 · answered by Txgirl23 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋