A friend of mine was telling me that her man always seems to change the subject or more to the point just switch off when he is confronted with something he has done, i myself haven't experienced this with my man as yet, but i just thought i'd ask the question to you guys.
So... is there any truth here?
2007-07-27 05:59:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I always face up to what I might have done
2007-07-27 06:02:20 · answer #1 · answered by Ron B. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if your legs look like that photo, I'll listen to anything you have to say!
Yes. We can listen and respond even if it is we who have offended.
(Are you mad about the leg comment? I meant it as a compliment!)
If your friend has noticed this phenomenon more than three times, that indicates something is wrong. Either he is doing several things wrong or she is misinterpreting the things he does. Can that happen? Yes, definitely.
Women are emotional creatures, and that's a positively beautiful thing! ...except when their emotion gets in the way of reason.
If 'your friend' has this problem with 'her man' maybe she is at least partially to blame.
My experience is that when ANY intelligent well-meaning person tells me I have upset them, I'll listen, apologize, and explain. Further, if I was truly at fault, I will make the effort to not make the same mistake again. That is especially true if it is a woman I love and want to have sex with.
However, when a vicious vituperous vociferous virago keeps bringing up old complaints that were not my fault in the first place, I'd tell where to go... unless of course, she had legs like in that photo!;-)
2007-07-27 13:45:16 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Trevor 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nag, nag, nag!!! If it's a daily thing and she's never happy no matter what, then I switch off. If it's a genuine issue deserving a "real" discussion, then it needs to be confronted.
2007-07-27 13:10:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
my man is exactly the same as your friends man, will change the subject altogether, or totally avoid me untill he thinks i've forgot.....
men or some men have this amazing talent of turning things around into summat you have actually done
2007-07-27 13:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Honesty ♥.•´ `*.¸ ♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not with me...if i've done wrong... then i'll face the music.
however... i seem to have done a lot of "wrong" lately whether it's true or not & always appear to have the music box thrown at me.
2007-07-27 13:05:38 · answer #5 · answered by The Unknown Soldier 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've had women tackle me before, but never because they were upset.
2007-07-27 13:02:40 · answer #6 · answered by 42ITUS™ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he thinks it really upset me he say sorry but he just changes the subject
2007-07-27 13:05:35 · answer #7 · answered by not me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just turn off
2007-07-27 13:04:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds about right. - It's not a good sign though.
2007-07-27 13:05:53 · answer #9 · answered by 'Dr Greene' 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i own up to what i did, but i don't like to basque in it like some women do...
2007-07-27 13:07:05 · answer #10 · answered by elchavoguapo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋