Make my ex sign a notorized confidential contract for a meeting?

Question

Its come down to 24 hours to deal with her, or the Justice system. 1 Child involved. Child and Ex live 1k miles from me. I dont want her to use my reality in court to bury me. I am a fuch up. Lost communications with child for few months now, du to BLOW. Lost my job. Car..............yep, its gone too. Evicted also. Im a real smart guy huh??? Truth is, drugs didnt mess me up, FMLA did. Partied for a year without FMLA and functioned fine, with moderate bankroll chng. Will it hold up in court?

It really was the FMLA. Look at it like this. Pre-FMLA a fuctioning social user. FMLA turned all the red lights green, and every street the Audobahn. Instead of the usual twice a week, 7-10 hour binge. The 10th hour is here, guess what, Im calling in FMLA two, three days in a row. It meant no more restrictions. No more 3-4 hour sleep nights, followed by absolutly nightmareish shift at work. After 30 call ins in 6 months,,,,,Whacko ! LOL

Answer 1

FLMA (Family Medical Leave Act) had NOTHING to do with your problems. Unless you admit your drug problem is at fault, you will not straiten out your life. I don't know what you are actually asking, but no court will believe the FMLA is at fault. Even if they did, how would that help you?

I actually agree the drugs did not mess you up. The fact you were messed up is the reason you use drugs.

Answer 2

Maybe you should focus on straightening your life out for the sake of your kid....and you won't have to worry about tricking your ex into siging a contract.

Life is short...and your wasting it on blow instead of spending it with your child.

I think you and I both know, just from what you posted... You aren't fit to be a father at the moment. For the child's sake you shouldn't be allowed visitation.

The good news is... there is still time to change. Get new friends, get a new job, get into rehab and go see an addiction specialist who may be able to refer you to a doctor who can prescribe you something to get your inhibitions under control.

Time to decide what is important and make it happen.