Lets say you've been married for a few years or more. Your both loyal to eachother and have no problems. He/she got you a stripper for your bday/anniversary/etc.
How would you perceive this? Would you take offense, or enjoy the fun?
2007-07-27 04:00:52 · 14 answers · asked by Ominious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
to Mia: Stippers dont touch you, and generally you dont touch them either
2007-07-27 04:19:30 · update #1
You think too much.
It was a gift.
A little kinky, but still a gift.
It may lead to some interesting conversations.
2007-07-27 05:02:17 · answer #1 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I've been married for 21 years. If my wife did this, I would look her in the eye and ask, "Who are you, and what have you done with my wife?" Then I'd laugh and enjoy the show.
If I hired a male stripper for her, she would probably take offense and get mad at me, but that's just a guess. Then again, I'm not sure -- she might like it. We went to a strip club once where they had both male and female strippers, and she did seem to enjoy watching the guys quite a bit.
2007-07-27 11:06:42 · answer #2 · answered by Happy-2 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is difficult to answer the question without having some background knowledge on your relationship. It may be that she is testing you or giving you some freedom. Does she just want you to look or can you touch what is being dangled in front of you. Maybe she wants you to get so turned on that she wants to be the one that satisfies that urge. If everything is fine between you two then sit back enjoy the show for all that it is worth and take one for the team.
2007-07-27 11:07:31 · answer #3 · answered by James 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy the hell out of that! My first wife took me to a strip club for my 21 birthday. She had a friend who worked there. They dragged me up on stage and two of them danced all over me. I was wasted drunk. They started taking my cloths off. I didn't care.
2007-07-27 11:07:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd hope it would be fun. I think My wife would like it, have fun. She might wonder where my head is....
Hmmm...I really don't know what shed think if I did that.
It's not llike me or her got a stripper for themselves. That might cause problems. But if she got one for me, obviously she has no problem with it. So we'd have fun with it.
2007-07-27 11:05:34 · answer #5 · answered by Sean C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is trying to spice up the marriage. Do her on the kitchen table when the kids are asleep and tell her that if she screams out she will wake the kids and she will be happy.
2007-07-27 11:04:50 · answer #6 · answered by eric l 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would be freaked out. This would be so out of character that I would be suspicious. Perhaps others in a different lifestyle would take it in stride!
2007-07-27 11:05:26 · answer #7 · answered by Willie J 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Would never happen in a million years. He knows I find them nasty and disgusting. He would never hire one for me and I would never hire one for him.
This is not a matter of trust, it's a matter of respect.
2007-07-27 11:12:43 · answer #8 · answered by Sandy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
depends on how the marriage is going and it might be a test to.
2007-07-27 11:04:35 · answer #9 · answered by j.r. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would take big offence if my husband wanted naked men dancing for me and touching me.
2007-07-27 11:05:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋