me and my boyfriend are trying to concive we have only bin tryin a week but i am desperate! i have jus got off the phone to a m8 i aint spoke to in ages and shes pregnant now i just feel this rush of jelousy am i bein stupid?
2007-07-27 03:50:09 · 27 answers · asked by pinky213 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
i am using my boyfriends account and i am 20!
2007-07-27 03:55:32 · update #1
Calm down, it's only a week. It's natural your going to be jealous of your friend, but stressing yourself out that she's pregnant & your not at this early stage of trying, really wont help you. You should enjoy the trying for now, that way when you find you are pregnant the news will be better than all your birthday's at once. The very best of luck for the future.
2007-07-27 04:06:10 · answer #1 · answered by DINGLE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u just feel broody.a week is not a long time.3 years ago when i was 20 i lost my son aged 6 weeks old.then we were tryin for 18 months to concieve,7 weeks ago i was pregnant the next day i miscarried.dont rush things,take it in ur stride.leave it to nature as the way i see it the more u want a baby,the harder it is, i have been there done that and lost the two most precious things in the world.most couples can take up to 2 years to concieve,so expect to wait when tryin to concieve cos for a lot of women wait many years to eventuall fall pregnant.as for ur friend bein pregnant. i now when i lost my first son my sis in law had baby aged 9 weeks old.my sis was pregnant and my best mate was pregnant.this time when i had the miscarriage my sister in law that had the kid aged 9 weeks is pregant again and their wasonly a days difference in our due dates.keep tryin u will get there in the end.i use this sayin now after bein told it 'without hope and faith we may as well be dead'. i use it all the time to help me thru the long dark days.baby dust to u.good luck in ttc.
2007-07-27 05:05:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no clue. Having a baby is making a committment for at least 18 years. Babies are expensive and take a lot of hard work and time.
Don't get me wrong. My wife and I have three and they bring us the greatest joy in life, but for people not prepared for the long haul, a baby becomes a burden, depression sets in and everyone suffers.
Get a dog first and see what its like.... multiply the responsibility that a dog requires by about a million. That's a baby.
Your reasons for wanting a baby are all wrong
2007-07-27 03:55:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you aren't being stupid!!!
Its so hard not being pregnant when it seems like everyone around you is!!!! I was desperately jelous of my sister in law when she got pregnant, even though it wasn't the right time for us (the wedding was booked and the dress fitted so it wasn't an option then!!!!)
Just read my earlier advice to you (on your last question) and good luck with the trying. You will get there in the end, I'm sure.
xxx
2007-07-27 03:54:45 · answer #4 · answered by Emma W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No not at all, I feel like that too, everytime I hear someone in my family gets pregs! I know it stupid but you cant help your feeling! Plus it has only been a week wait a few more weeks and you might be pregs. Good luck
2007-07-27 08:03:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. you are not stupid..... and don't be that way on how you feel to yourself..... there are people are hard to conceive.... or maybe you eggs are not that fertile the time you and your boyfriend make love.... my mother had me when my father and mother had almost 3 years of making me.... and then here i am....
there are some things that may you be not to conceive.... maybe you are so stressful.... even trying to make it, is a one thing that make you stress.... make you life stress free when having it...
and beside when its time for you to have it.... it will come... if not yet... just wait for your turn.... or maybe God had some things for you to do first.... don't be jealous of others that they had it already..... just be calm and make your self stress free.... and dont be pessimistic.... ok... God bless....
2007-07-27 04:04:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on why you are so desperate to have a baby, how old you are and how stable your relationship is with your boyfriend. If you're trying to have a baby just to keep up with your friends, that's stupid. If you're trying to have a baby to hang on to your boyfriend, that's stupid. If you're trying to have a baby so that you always have somebody to love and be loved by because you have a rocky relationship with your boyfriend and your family, that's not very smart, either. If you're trying to have a baby before your body has finished maturing, that's not very smart, either.
2007-07-27 03:54:01 · answer #7 · answered by sparki777 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nahhhh...your not stupid, just anxious. Everybody feels things differently. Just keep trying. One day you will wake up and whammm...its happened. Then you will not get a good nights sleep for at least 5 years...enjoy!!!!!,
2007-07-27 03:56:27 · answer #8 · answered by Orphan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes time as anyone on these boards will tell you if you are stressing now think what it will be like in 6-9 months???
good luck and try to calm down a bit it will happen
2007-07-27 03:55:50 · answer #9 · answered by Mitza 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are.
1. Get married.
2. Eliminate all non natural birth control. You will live longer and stay married (Try NFP)
3. Let God take care of the rest.
2007-07-27 03:54:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋