Hi, okay so ive been hooking up w this guy for about a month and a half now. We used to date for a little bit, then broke up, then decided to just hook up for a little bit. We always use a condom. BUt this past weekend one of the times we didnt, but he pulled out. The past couple of days i have been having really bad pains in my lower section/pelvic area/uterus area. I dont no what it is?? or could be. I dont have an std, and i dont think he does. Ive only been w him and from what i no hes only been w me. Also i think now he is avoiding me and is done?? I txted him tues. night and asked if he wanted to come over the next day and he never responded and now he is out of town for a week and a half. Should i txt him and ask if he has something???????? i dont no what to do please help. thankyou!!
Ps. Im 20 and so is he. so....................
2007-07-27 03:43:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
well that means absoultely nothing doesn it...what you believe him just cause he said he hasnt got an STD, thats not very good, you need to go and get that checked out, dont be embarrased they see it al the time but you must go because these things only get worse.
also just because am man pulls out doesnt mean you wont get pregnant, men sometimes c u m before they climax so i shud get a pregnacy test done as well.
i hope you will learn from this not to trust someone just cause they said they have only slept with you or they havnt got an STD and the pullin out techinique really isnt reliable at all. i wish you luck and i hope everythn is ok for you just learn from ur mistakes and dont worry about the guy, if he runs out on you he not worth it you're better than that.
2007-07-27 03:48:21 · answer #1 · answered by Weeza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a urinary tract infection. Frequently we women do not urinate after sex....ITS A MUST!!! Because of the close proximity of the rectum to the vagina, during sex feces can be introduced to the vagina and subsequently into the urethra, bladder and possibly the kidney. When you urinate immediately after sex it washes out that bacteria so that it can't get the opportunity to cause an infection. Go to the Dr and get some meds asap.
As for your personal life move on baby! As a mom I tell my daughters develop a friendship and learn about the person who you would like to spend more time with and I have always told them WOMEN HOLD THE KEYS...If they would only recognize that and be strong! Sex is such a small part of a relationship. It may be fun, feel good, but it is far from what will carry you thru the life ahead of you. You need to present yourself as someone who is worth spending the rest of your life with...not an easy thrill, those are a dime a dozen!
Words of Wisdom from a mom and someone who has walked in your shoes and changed shoes along the road!!!
2007-07-27 11:13:45 · answer #2 · answered by Free Thinker 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi u may be over thinking to much and getting paranoid. If i was you to put your mind at rest go to your doctors/nurse for some swabs they test you for everything other than aids. Its just the same as having a smear but not as uncomfortable. You say you don't think he has std but to be honest do you really know????
2007-07-27 10:49:58 · answer #3 · answered by DEB L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will not tell u even if he knows he has something and if he does have something he probably doesnt know it, go 2 the doctor and get tested, dont text him anymore, you dont want 2 look desperate or sprung, leave him alone, he will come around
2007-07-27 10:49:28 · answer #4 · answered by sweet @ss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He got what he wanted and now has moved on... sorry love but that is life. You also might have a STD or UTI so go check it out.
If he is out of your life so quick how do you know he is not doing this to many girls, all of whom may have STD's
2007-07-27 10:50:13 · answer #5 · answered by just me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please go see a doctor - go to a clinic if you don't have one. I doubt you would have pregnancy symptoms this soon, but you could have gotten an STD from him, and he might not even know he has one. Or, you can get a urinary tract infection that way. Don 't take chances. An untended infection now can lead to sterility later.
2007-07-27 10:47:47 · answer #6 · answered by ssmesq 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've been played.
Seek a doctor to get tested for STD's and pregnancy.
Pulling out is one of the easiest ways to get pregnant.
2007-07-27 10:53:03 · answer #7 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about him, just go to the clinic and get yourself tested, and make sure to wear a condom EVERY single time from now on :)
2007-07-27 10:47:18 · answer #8 · answered by Raychel 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
get tested..
and only have sex with someone you know will be there for you
2007-07-27 10:52:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go get tested
2007-07-27 10:45:59 · answer #10 · answered by shawtnsweet77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋