wants your forgiveness but has done something unforgivable? I am all for forgiveness. But I have some friends who are really mad and I don't know how to tell them forgiveness is the way to go.
2007-07-27 01:54:58 · 10 answers · asked by behappy9805 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Fogiving is a gift you give to yourself. It doesn't mean you are saying what they did was okay, you are just letting go of resentment and anger over it. Holding onto those bad feelings are like drinking poison and hoping the other person dies from it. They don't get hurt, you do. You can't convince other people of that though, they need to learn on their own. Just state your feelings about it and leave it go. Hopefully they will learn, if not, then it's their problem, not yours.
2007-07-27 01:59:12 · answer #1 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only forgive when forgiveness is due...
After you forgive somebody so much, depending on the person, they start to think that they can walk all over you...
2007-07-27 01:59:26 · answer #2 · answered by dark is rising 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not unforgivable, but something I know will continue and I don't care to have that behavior in my life. Make sense? So i choose not to talk with her. she made it out like it was all me trying to control her. she's impulsive, whiny, and when she asks repeatedly, I might add, for my opinion and i give it to her only to find that she has done just the opposite time and again, why do I waste my time with her? I don't , I won't. Thank you for listening.
2007-07-27 02:00:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't at present, but I understand what you're going through. Sometimes, it takes a while to forgive someone; it takes a little time to heal your wound. I'm here for you if you want to talk.
2007-07-27 08:08:30 · answer #4 · answered by Agent D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes my father for years of abuse and my two no longer best friends and neither of them are getting forgiveness because they don't deserve it!!
2007-07-27 02:13:15 · answer #5 · answered by Rhyannonn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes my father, but until he owns up to what hes done I cant and wont forgive him
2007-07-27 01:58:47 · answer #6 · answered by TrajedyinMotion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and I forgive them but they want me to admit that I was somehow wrong.
2007-07-27 02:02:18 · answer #7 · answered by AM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, but instead i am craving for people's forgiveness
2007-07-27 02:01:46 · answer #8 · answered by Hornet One 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like cheese
2007-07-27 01:58:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes i do
2007-07-27 03:21:32 · answer #10 · answered by × 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋