Just for the records, i do get wet without any artificial assisstance and i do get aroused at the thought of sex but in the real sense of it i don't really think i've ever come as people know it; you know the 'climax' that comes with some 'shivering' and 'mind blowing release'. I really would give anything to 'come' sexually.
Another thing is that some two of the guys i've had sex with asked me if i'm circumcised to which the answer is definitely NO! and this got me thinking whether my clitoris is missing!
Pls help me with answers!!!
2007-07-26 22:53:55 · 17 answers · asked by buzor 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Your body is "bored" and needs something new.
It's like when I was much younger I'd get somewhat excited and wet just by watching light erotic scene on TV. And now, I'm not even care about the scenes because I think they are boring and not interesting (anymore). I need something stronger to stimulate my brain and get excited.
2007-07-26 23:00:04 · answer #1 · answered by cherrryberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be having an orgasm without knowing it, every body climaxes in possibly a different way, The fact that you get aroused and and get wet shows that you on the way to achieving an orgasm. Many girls and women do not climax through penetrive sex, some do, but many dont , you are more likely to achieve an orgasm with oral sex and your partners fingers rubbing your g spot, It is thought that with an uncircumcised man the foreskin as it retracts on entry in to the vagina will rub against the clitoris and arouse you where obviously a circumcised man will not.
The one thing to guarrentee you wont have an orgasm is if you strive to have one every time you make love, the intensity of orgasm is different to different women, I had partners who can only *** through oral sex and others who prefer intercourse to ***.
Some woman thrash around during their climax other just feel warm and relaxed every one is different, as long as you enjoy making love then surely in that sense you have climaxed
2007-07-27 09:42:51 · answer #2 · answered by john h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly there are 2 forms of female circumcision. The first is where the hood of the clitoris is removed and the second is where all the clitoris is removed.
Usually female failure to climax is due to psychological reasons rather than physical ones but I would say your first step would be to get a physical to make sure that all the right bits are there. Assuming they are (it would be incredibly rare if they were not!) then you need to start exploring the psychological side of things, this is best done with a sex therapist.
2007-07-26 23:08:31 · answer #3 · answered by huggz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To orgasm during sex the guys penis needs to be in contact with your clitoris. For this to happen he needs to be higher than you so that during sex his penis is rubbing you clitoris. I'm sure your clitoris is not missing. You will find your clitoris right at the top of your slit, where the 2 sides meet under your belly button. Slide your fingers between the lips and feel around at the back for a small lump. It should tingle when you touch it. Rub it gently in small circles ,until you orgasm .good luck
2007-07-27 08:40:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex gf had been hving sex wit her ex for 2 yrs but never had an orgasm. When we started hving sex, she told me she couldnt come. After a mth, i started to believe tat but one night she drank quite alot & then we hv sex for ard 45 min, she finally had orgasm. After tat, she had no problem at all & sometimes had several orgasm during 1 sex. I think the prob is tat you're not relaxed & thinking too much abt it. Some guys come early not becoz they're weak or wht, but they're being too nervous. Do remeber tat you want to enjoy sex & the ultimate goal is to hv fun. Practically, you can try to drink a little, watch some porno or do some role play game. I actually hv read a research in a newspaper saying tat quite a lot women hv never experienced orgasm in their life time. So i dun think yuo hv any physical prob. Jus try to relax & enjoy. it would be helpful to add some more excitment like wht i mentioned before.
Good Luck!!
2007-07-26 23:17:43 · answer #5 · answered by Roy K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when your boyfriend fully enters you tell him to take it out about an inch.
and to take some of the weight off you tell him to put some of his weight on his knees.
this will rub inside you in the right place and also on the outside on the right place.
maybe you will never come and because they couldnt make you they turn the tables and use excuses
if i was your boyfriend i would see it as a challenge
2007-07-26 23:02:40 · answer #6 · answered by STEVEN E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you orgasm when you play with your self if so you will have to educate your partner an tell him what works or go an see your doctor ok get toys an lots off forplay ok read books try new things or get a new partner ok
2007-07-26 23:01:21 · answer #7 · answered by chriodigger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my gf had the same problem. it took alot of understanding on my part and trying new things (not kinky) until we tried her masturbating while having sex. we don't naturally know the how's of sex, they have to be learned. once you learn how to orgasm during sex, it will be easier to do.(assuming you orgasm during masturbation). also could be your clitoris is small or positioned alittle inside but i doubt you are missing one
2007-07-26 23:07:09 · answer #8 · answered by oldguy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did not have my first orgasm until 29 and I thought I wasn't normal. Don't worry it will get you and your poor hubby will need some rest
2007-07-26 23:13:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should do to make your self happy is find another husband your only 19 you got a whole life to live
2016-05-20 06:52:34 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋