I left for this guy who is my soulmate I love him so much a love
like this is all Ive ever dreamed of.I made a mistake the first time
I left them that guy didnt really want a relationship.I am the mom
that should count right?So far I havent seen my kids for 3 weeks
but I did call them,thats when I found out thier dad is suing for
custody.He wont really be granted custody will he?
2007-07-26 20:25:45 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wow, I don't mean to sound rude but Goodluck after doing that twice to your own children!! Would they want to stay with you after all they may feel as though you could abandon them again if you found 'another soul mate'!!? I don't know if you will get custody but goodluck!! I'm no one to judge!!!
2007-07-26 20:31:28 · answer #1 · answered by Marianne k 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I certainly hope their father is granted custody. You left your children for some man? Your soul mate? What about "the first time"? Was he your soul mate, too? Listen, you can always get another man...you can never replace your kids. You are unfit mother, personified. You haven't seen your children for three weeks, but you did call them? What a grand gesture on your part. Do those children a favor, and give up custody to their father. You are far too selfish and narcissistic to have children in your care. By the way, when you left those TWO times, who did you leave the children with?
2007-07-27 03:38:46 · answer #2 · answered by claudiacake 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You leaving your children in his care, for the love of your life, uhmm and now your kids dad is suing for custody? but your question states that this is the second time you up and leave your children.. Most likely yes he will gain custody of his children.. calls do not count is being there what's count and your not so hope the soul mate was worth loosing the real love of your life, your children. If for some miracle of God you happened to regain custody don't be so eager to let abandon your children again no man should go above your children, no man is worth loosing them.. good luck.
2007-07-27 09:16:05 · answer #3 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow! By now I think you've figured out that your chances are pretty slim. I don't want to add to all the other judgemental responses but I would like to add some advice.
Get yourself together. Only you can make yourself happy in the long run. A happy mom is a good mom. Looking for love while you should be focused on your kids is just going to make you feel worse about yourself in the long run. Get it together, go back to your children and work on you and being the best you that you can be. Be true to yourself. A man is not going to solve your problems. Your children need you.
Good luck!
2007-07-27 03:41:12 · answer #4 · answered by Frances 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yep more then likely he will win.. and i kinda hope he does, im sorry i dont feel bad for a mother who picks a guy over her kids and basically thats what u did, a judge will find it very hard, to take away the kids from someone that never left them and can hold down a stable environment from them.. so u probably just lost ur kids..
2007-07-27 03:29:54 · answer #5 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It should count right?
Are you serious here?
No man is worth more than your children. I only read the subject line and i already thought you were an idiot.
You being the mother dont count for **** if you are not going to be there for the children when they need you. I despise people like you and I pray that their father gains custody.
I feel sorry for the kids and I do wish they are too young at the moment for them to have to remember you just up and leaving them TWICE for some guy.
You should be ashamed of yourself.
2007-07-27 03:30:55 · answer #6 · answered by GoonterTheJellyDog 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
WOMAN like you should be Sewed shut. Yes he should and probably is going to get FULL LEGAL and Physical with you possibly only get a little visitation... What are you going to do the next time some guy comes along that is you SOULMATE. GROW UP AND GET REAL...it doesnt matter that your the mother your not being one, any female can give birth, IT takes a true woman to be a mom......
2007-07-27 09:51:09 · answer #7 · answered by Just Wondering 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hate to be rude here but I haven't met the dude worth leaving my kids for first of all. Second, I guess to answer your question it would depend on how long of time it is you were gone. I would assume that it might be likely their dad could get physical placement (which might not be all that bad until U make up UR mind) and you will get visitation. Anyway love those kids first boytoy second. Good luck
2007-07-27 03:32:48 · answer #8 · answered by Darkchild 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but if you abandoned your children twice, you don't deserve custody. Those kids need a stable guardian, and the father seems to be just that. Maybe there is more to this, but from the little info you gave, I'd give the father FULL custody.
2007-07-27 03:28:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I hope he does get custody. How can you abandon your kids?
Did you just wake up one day and think "hell, I don't feel like being a mom, so I'm gonna leave my kids with their father".
A mistake you say, the only mistake is the children for having a mother like you
2007-07-27 03:32:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋