Why do people say being gay is ok and that they are born that way?

Question

Just look at the male and female human anatomy, it was meant for male to female intercourse. when in reality most people are turned gay because they were molested or something when they were young. Im not saying i hate gay people or anything like that, but i also dont like people that say being gay is normal when its not.

first of all i fnd it funny anytime someone is against homosexuality or disapproves of it supporters always say your just gay yourself thats why you hate them. and second i dont hate gay people, what they do is there own business, i just dont like it when people act like its ok to be gay and thats how people are and we should accept it and sometimes embrace it.

Answer 1

I also feel like you, if I say that to be gay is not OK, people considers at ones how I hate gay people. First what I see not normally in gay people is that they want promote own sexuality, that is not case with straight people.Why gay people make own bars, society groups, it that is normally?Behind gay psiha always is some problem with personality.I read that gay people exely have own sexuality from own genes, but I don't know is that theory right.Also all Religions consider Homosexuality like big sin, but God give us free will, every one is indebted for own acts, so, other people haven't right force gay people how that was and still is case is in some societies. God is love and we shoud be love all people in this World, God teel who is right, who is not.
In this society, in mediums too much is promoted homosexuality, so I start to think that head of the World, mason or don't know what is secret name of that people, are gay .
There are too many excellent actors gay, great singers,but they belong our society, not another gay society.I don't understand why they make conventions of gay people on street, make bar only for gays and simirarly.

Answer 2

You have been horribly missed lead if you believe that all Gay people have had some tragedy that "made us that way".

I was not molested or anything like that, but yet I am Gay, and happily so for the most part. (The only misery is having to cope and deal with those who hate and discriminate against us.)

Human sexuality is so much more complicated than simply viewing it as a black and white issue. If we say we were born Gay, and that it is normal for us, it is because that is true for us.

...and I thought you were one of the cool guys. Darn, I am so disappointed. (Guess I am hated again by those who I like as a person.)



Alexrose - that is F'in BS!! From the time we are all born, it is assumed we all will marry someone opposite of our own gender. As a kid, I was always asked if a I had a girlfriend, or which girl I thought was hot, etc. No one, absolutely no one, never ever, considered for once that I might be into guys. Heterosexuality is sooooooo forced upon us. From our parents, to our churches, and so on. How can you even say Heterosexuality is not forced upon Gay people. It is in the discrimination itself. Who has ever been fired or beaten up for being Straight. MY GAWD!! Have some brains!!

...and as for Gay Bars. Well do you want a Lesbian hitting on you at a "normal" mainstream bar? What Straight Man wants to be asked out by a Gay Man? We have our own bars and such because we simply are not accepted nor welcomed in your bars.

Answer 3

Yes, science has PROVEN that homosexuals are given (not by their own free will) a very high amount of female hormones by the mother while they reside in her. He's not taking them by HIS choice and Mom's not giving them by HER choice. It was due to a chromosomal mistake in the sex genes. It is ONLY the father who determines the sex of a child, be it a boy or a girl, so a child being born homosexual could easily be as much his fault as hers, if you want to call it a 'fault'. It is perfectly natural, since EVERY species that we've studied so far has homosexuals in it. Some animals will only attempt to breed with their own sex, either top or bottom. A biological hypothesis is that nature made some of her animals gay so she could curb population growth. I AM aware of the twin studies, but those were ALL fraternal twins, not identical, so they grew up in different environments, hormones included.

Answer 4

actually you have the whole concept wrong.
I am GAY and i was not molested or anything like that when i was young. I was brought up in a house full of macho men. I did everything that a guy was supposed to do but i was still geared towards men. How can you say that you dont hate gay people when you say that being GAY is not normal????

Wow. see its ignorant people like you that make the gay community such a harsh place. Being gay is NOT normal?????? What a stupid thing to say, its not a choice! people dont wake up one morning and say hey i was molested i think im going to turn gay, the whole world would be gay if that was the case.....learn your facts before asking such an ignorant question.

Answer 5

What is normal? People on both pro or anti gay sides of the fence will use the nature/nurture argument to try and justify their arguments. Personally I think sexuality (not just being gay) is a bit of both nature and nurture. Sure some people are frightened by sexuality, but that doesn't excuse ignorance. I don't apologise for my sexuality (nor would I expect anyone else to) however at the same time I don't see the need to justify, explain or otherwise try and rationalise who I am to often hostile questioners. We are all who we are 'warts and all' I just ask to be treated with the same respect as I treat those around me. It ain't rocket science.

Answer 6

I think everyone is entitled to their opinion just so long as they don't try to force it on others who have an opposing view.

For example, I don't think religion is OK and I could give you any number of reasons why not. Not least that it's used an excuse to persecute those who don't agree with that particular religion or behave in a manner that religion would not condone, but I don't go round trying to convince everyone else that my views are right and the only one's that should be accepted.

It doesn't matter whether you hate or not. The fact that you're not willing to accept difference or a differnet perspective makes you a lesser human being.

For me I just like people for their individual qualities, and I accept or reject them based on how they treat me and others around them.

Therefore based on what you've just said you would have to do a hell of a lot of convincing to make me believe that YOU are a person worth getting to know.

C ya!

Answer 7

Well I really think that you dont just become gay out of no were you have to be born like this because a gay person can't help to liked someone there owen sex . I have nothing agains a gay person.

Answer 8

Unless you're a closet gay and testing the waters before you come out, what difference does it make?
Live the way you want and let others do the same.

Answer 9

Bottom line is that we got to ask ourselves who are we to judge these people? We could debate all night about whether it is natural or a sin but I would rather think about other things because I am the type of person who firmly believes that we should leave people alone as long as they are not bothering us.

Answer 10

u have all said what u wanted but at the end of the day, "many wrongs, dont make one right". gay-ism is wrong and no matter how much people try to justify themselves, it still remains as wrong. turning a blind eye to gay-ism doesnt make it right.
God created a man and a woman, wrong and right. if we cannot use the only most developed part of our body to differentiate wrong from right, then animals r far much better than us. which explains why there r no gays among the animals.
I dont hate gays but at the same time i cannot pretend to support their gay-ism. to me whether they were molested or not, or whether they chose to experiment sexuality in their own way, the fact remains.
call me ignorant, call me whatever u want but as long as im not hiding my sexuality or going round feeling sorry for myself or trying to prove to the whole world that having sex with a person of the same gender is normal, then im proud of who i am. now that's what i'd call freedom of choice because to me gays r self-prisoners, locked in their own closets. the only way to break free is to accept what god intended for us, sex between a man and a woman.