How some people move easily from pain and grief?

Question

I know some people who are sensitive and kind.But i know some people who can easily forget the pain and grief in their life and move on.The pain may be loss of love,no satisfaction in life etc..how these people can easily move away from this.Im sensitive kind of a guy,anyone can hurt me easily,how to become strong becoming strong means losing our love and sensitiveness towards others?plzz tell.

Answer 1

We appear to not care. This doesn't mean that we don't care. It just means we are better at concealing our feelings than other people are.

Answer 2

Pain,grief and sense of loss etc are normal human emotions but there is always a method to deal with them,if one so desires.The easiest way to deal with them is to ask,wasn't I ok before this happened?If yes,then say if this wasn't there say,a week or 10 days before,then it should also be not there after say,........days or so.This conveys to mind the short time dimension of the problem and a hope with expectations to be free from it ,any time soon.There are other methods also but one way or the other they all work upon our minds to impress upon the temporary nature of the occurrence.which lessens their impact and the magnitude.Mind is the most wonderful and strongest medium which can even nullify the feeling of pain and grief.We all can learn and practice it.It's really so easy.

Answer 3

Start by trying a little harder with your English, Apu.
Grief/sadness like all other emotions are individualistic in that their intensity is determined by the persons innate ratio of vulnerability vs resilience. These are determined primarily genetically, though there is an environmental component.

Answer 4

"All that glitters is not gold" my friend. People pretend or are confused about feelings a lot.
While your lucky to able to admit your sensitive, you might like to toughen up your skin a little; what I do is take responsibility for everything in my reality- I still go off, but it's a process....life's a process.

Answer 5

Practice meditation coupled with Japa and Yoga.

Answer 6

i told you it takes time right?we are human beings with feelings.we cant just switch off our mind from thinking a certain matter.only time can heal certain wounds.please let time to do its magic and dont force it.pray alot.

Answer 7

some of those people who appear to move on easily are faking it.