I ask my wife for sex about every 3 to 4 days. sometimes she tells me that I want it to much. she hates when i bring it up and gets annoyed.
2007-07-26 18:11:06 · 10 answers · asked by jrein_27 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Is your approach to foreplay "Honey, brace yourself!"?
Maybe try a soft approach and see if that works. Ifyou've tried this and it's not getting anywhere you need to have a frank conversation with her about why intimacy is important for you and see what may be holding her back?
2007-07-27 06:36:18 · answer #1 · answered by Zaferus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find out why she doesn't want sex! The reports say that a healthy sex life is 3 - 4 times a week if possible. If she doesn't like sex or doesn' want sex, maybe it is something physical and she needs to see a doctor. If she says it is you and she is just not interested in you, then you need a new wife.
2007-07-26 18:19:22 · answer #2 · answered by baseballdad69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time ask her what it's going to cost you to have sex with her. That will make her feel bad and she'll get the point that it's wrong to ask you for anything. So if you say no is she going to stop having sex with you in the act? This sucks man I would be pissed.
2016-04-01 04:18:14 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you aren't asking for sex too much and she's really mean to tell you that but please think.
Do you ask her when she's very tired? may be if you buy dinner that day instead of her cooking or clean or something she would appreciate it and say yes.
Most women don't have orgasm during intercourse but pretend to make men happy, maybe some oral sex or playing with her first till she orgasm gets the ball rolling.
May be a nice gift or a new dress gets you a good week of action.
This problem is very easy to solve just negotiate things with her.
2007-07-26 18:30:15 · answer #4 · answered by thecoldfire72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that honestly you ask her when she is tired she has two kids and works alot of hours ... and when u ask her u bring it up at the wrong time like while riding in the car going places or at the carnival when she is not thinking bout sex but about having a fun night out with the kids ... maybe if u let her approach u more often instead of begging her for it all the time u would get it more !!
2007-07-26 18:52:29 · answer #5 · answered by hazel_629 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, every 4 days is fine- I think it's your "approach".
Try something different-don't ask for a week or two-just bring home flowers a couple times this week-do the dishes, make dinner-just give her a break, maybe you're like an annoying little kid-just lay off for a week or two. Let her hit on you.
2007-07-26 18:25:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should just be really nice to her... give her unexpected hugs...not groping ..little kisses on the cheek and a wink or two...flirt with her for 2 hours before you go to bed...like you did when you were dating....remember???? that will help... but during this time DO NOT MENTION OR ASK FOR SEX! you might be surprised...
2007-07-30 10:29:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife, sounds like mine!!! But I'm 55,still alive, astill wanting, (there may be a time like when I'm 87,when I won't want?),I've considered everything from the big D, to having a girl friend, but neither is acceptable!! So I get what I can from her,and occupy my time!! (Yuk, this really sucks!!!!!!!)
2007-07-26 18:32:13 · answer #8 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I give my husband sex just about anytime he wants it unless I'm super busy.
2007-07-26 19:12:53 · answer #9 · answered by **Llola** 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
poor you
2007-07-27 14:54:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋