I have less verbal skill. During conversation I have to need some extra time to response because I think deeply but slowly though I am very intelligent inside. Probably for this reason People consider me fool & they insult & bullying me. I am now 27 years old & from many days I am trying to overcome this problem by trying to self development. But I can't. Do I have to accept this dishonorable life? I feel depressed about this. How should I do?
2007-07-26 17:03:51 · 1 answers · asked by Bluelover 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know many highly Intelligent people that lack in social skills.
People may bully you because you are an easy target. You probably don't stand up for yourself.
I believe you may be over thinking things when in a conversation. You are afraid of saying the wrong thing.
You need to build up your confidence.
By Socializing more you will learn to become more confident in yourself. Try talking to people in a grocery store, idle conversation. And do the same in other places you go.
You don't have to be politically correct all the time, just be yourself.
Be patient with yourself. Practice makes perfect.
~faith
2007-07-26 18:04:07 · answer #1 · answered by faith♥missouri 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋