I have never had any experiences with a girl before. I've thought about it, i've maybe wanted to try it, but i've never been with a girl in any way. I look at girls alot though, and i think about them, but can i still consider myself bisexual even though i've never been with one?
2007-07-26 16:42:16 · 20 answers · asked by mack7465 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
in response to goldwing: labeling my self would be a hell of a lot easier than not knowing what im feeling. I wouldn't have to feel so damn confused everyday. Not knowing what my own feelings mean, is alot harder than wearing some stupid label. At least then i'll know where i stand in life.
2007-07-26 17:05:36 · update #1
Absolutely. As a bisexual virgin (of both sexes) myself, I have no doubts as to the fact that I am sexually attracted to both men and women. It doesn't take experience to tell me that- I'm utterly turned on by each.
Don't let anyone tell you that you aren't bisexual because you haven't been with a girl; that's like telling some random virgin teenage boy that he isn't straight, or gay, or bisexual, until he's had sex. Believe me- he knows what he's craving for, and so do you.
Your sexual orientation is in your attractions, not in your actions.
2007-07-26 20:11:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Are you attracted to women? Your questions kind of sounds like you are a little. I guess the only way to really know, is if you think you could actually experience something with a girl without chickening out or regretting it for the rest of your life. I have to admit, I am kind of attracted to women but I don't consider myself bisexual because I know I would regret it. Good luck in your decision.
2007-07-26 16:48:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could. It's the same principle as straight people knowing they're straight even if they're virgins. I'm bi, it's been a while since the last time I was with a woman. I have a boyfriend, but I don't consider myself straight. Saying that would discount the attraction I have for women. Get it? So, in a nutshell, if your feelings are that strong for both sexes, then you, my friend, are bisexual.
2007-07-26 16:49:22 · answer #3 · answered by Drowzeee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why you want to consider yourself anything other than who you are. I don't understand why everyone wants to hang a label on themselves..straight, gay, bi....what in the world is the difference? Most people, at one time or another, wonder what it would be like....that doesn't mean they run around looking for it...that is why it is called fantasy. Stop worrying about so little...there are much more important things to apply all that energy to. Good luck and peace.
2007-07-26 16:48:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can consider yourself bisexual, but you really won't know absolutely for sure without any question, until you have been with women - and not just once either. It may take several times of having the experience before you can know that. And just plain old time. It's not like being gay or straight, when you really know which you are for sure.
2007-07-26 16:46:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You know in some sense, just a little. Just the fact that you are "attracted" or "appealing" to women just makes you more conscious about it(which I think is hot.............I'm just playing). Also, the fact that you think about them too is another aspect towards what your mind is thinking.
PS: But to say that you are bisexual is not yet determined. Why???? Well for one, you haven't been with one, so you can't say that you are looking for one, yet. But the fact that you may be appealing to women is a sign that you may be attracted to them. But there is a difference if you are dating one or not......
2007-07-26 16:50:06 · answer #6 · answered by Lucifer6972 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of my fave older gay guys
of all time said it this way:
"People aren't really heterosexual,
homosexual or bisexual...
they are just sexual.
It all depends upon who you love."
That does it for me. If you love
someone it goes a long way
toward physical attraction, no
matter whether boy or girl.
LOVE first, SEX next!
2007-07-26 16:55:43 · answer #7 · answered by teetiger 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course. It's your feelings/attractions that make your orientation, not necessarily your actions.
2007-07-26 16:44:34 · answer #8 · answered by Dawn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats the same w/ me and i consider myself bi....although i did have a gf once (but it only lasted about an hour)
2007-07-26 16:46:13 · answer #9 · answered by cdr dsw = <3 [11/1/10] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur attracted to both sexes, yes u can consider urself bi. regardless of experience. u dont have to have experience to be gay or straight now do u? lol.
2007-07-26 16:45:45 · answer #10 · answered by choux pastry heart 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋