I am not married, just curious.
2007-07-26 16:30:01 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
why would cheating be healthy? it cause heartache, mistrust, and divorce. all the things you don't want in a marriage.
2007-07-26 16:32:57 · answer #1 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not healthy. Cheating is a disease that kills a marriage and any love and respect from the partner.
Cheating makes a coward of the person doing the cheating.
2007-07-26 16:37:35 · answer #2 · answered by Lighthouse 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. It's hurtful and selfish. If a person isn't ready or able to commit to the person he or she is supposed to love deeply, then why marry that person in the first place?
A question back for you: Would you think it was healthy if your significant other cheated on you?
2007-07-26 16:34:16 · answer #3 · answered by BellasMom 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
not healthy for many reasons. says a lot about the lack of commitment in the relationship. keeps you from addressing real problems, as you just run to someone else for temporary satisfaction. can pose medical risks with the number of diseases running around out there.
if you're already at the point where you have no interest in your spouse and are looking for others, just end the marriage. that pain is better than ruining someone's life long term by keeping them in "jail"...meaning they're stuck in a love-less marriage to somone sleeping with anyone but them, keeping them from finding a better mate to grow old with.
2007-07-26 16:34:59 · answer #4 · answered by The Beast 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No but people cheat anyway! Why I don't know. Maybe its the chase there after or the age and want to see if there still attractive, or maybe they're just not getting any at home no matter what they try!
2007-07-26 16:34:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not in the U.S.of A. I hear in some other countries people cheat and its almost expected. Take for example the guy that was just elected in France. Everyone knew about his girlfriend but he got elected anyway. How many U.S. prez candidates would have a snowballs chance if they had a girlfriend on the side. I think cheating has a lot to do with culture and in our culture is not acceptable.
2007-07-26 16:46:51 · answer #6 · answered by Strike2? 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Polygamy is so frowned upon these days and there is no good solid social basis for that requirement. I blame the Government for it.... stupid laws.
People go into marriage carrying too many expectations. Don't think for a minute I don't love my wife with all my heart but some people I just want to have sex with and why shouldn't I?
Group sex is hip. Pity we are conditioned to feel that marriage implies some form of ownership and thus group sex crosses the boundaries of expectations. Now a Yahoo! Answers Marriage - - Pluralists abound. My Beauty, My Love.
2007-07-26 16:41:40 · answer #7 · answered by Icy Gazpacho 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
If it's healthy, I would really like to see you mother being cheated by your father.
2007-07-26 20:49:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya'll forgot to mention it can cause diseases and even the cheaters life! Playing mind games w/ someone and lying and cheating WILL come back three fold!
Before you ever decide to marry, get counseling to make sure your ready!
2007-07-26 16:35:26 · answer #9 · answered by FrancoAmerican! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is NEVER healthy to cheat while in a relationship. As a matter of fact, it's extremely detrimental to your relationship.
2007-07-26 16:34:23 · answer #10 · answered by LiL' Momma 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋