My wife dropped a large bombshell on me earlier this week. Basically we can never be together again, because she was from a different country that i can't move to ( because I would not be able to make a living). She told me she wants a divorce, and as hard as it is...I do not think we can work this out.
I have no desire to date. I thought she was the one i would grow old with.
People are telling me I have to move on before I can feel better. She was the one that abandoned the relationship- but I still feel married.
Should I take peoples advice, and start meeting people? I am just talking like meeting for coffee or something.Would this make the pain go away.
This is a stupid question, but I am so unsure of what I need to do in life now. My plans, and lifemap have been destroyed.
2007-07-26 16:25:53 · 3 answers · asked by baron d 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
as for any relationship ended regardless of what happen it
hard to move on. but dont rush in any thing, you will know
when it time for you to get back in the game. but i would
just take small steps right now. but as time goes on your
heart will heal and you will feel better to get out there
good luck.
2007-07-26 16:36:26 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there.
You move on when you fell like it.
It takes a while to heal, and trying to start going out
too soon is not fair to the ladies you'll be meeting.
'Just meeting` people WILL help you get on sooner,
and you'll probably encounter a few kindly ladies who
will provide a bit of 'there there` comfort which also helps.
2007-07-26 17:01:31 · answer #2 · answered by Irv S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just happened this week. Give it some time!!!!
2007-07-26 16:38:04 · answer #3 · answered by LiL' Momma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋