and she wont tell her mom.and shes scared.how can panda help.any advice i could give.help the panda
2007-07-26 14:58:16 · 17 answers · asked by NEDLY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
* Stay out of the mom thing.
* Open doors for her.
* Offer to drive her.
* Help her schedule Dr. Appts, get vitamins, get answers.
* LISTEN!!!
* Be encouraging and supportive.
* Talk to her about her plans - don't talk at her about her plans.
* Let her know you're there for her if she's sad or lonely.
* Celebrate with her when she's happy.
* Slip her little notes from time to time with nice mommy things on them.
* Defend her at all costs.
* Be there for her when she's mad at you, but go when she wants you to.
* Reassure her it will be okay.
2007-07-26 15:08:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her know that she has to tell her mom because she can't go through it alone, even though she doesn't know how her mom will react, it's best to just get it out of the way so she can go on with her pregnacy. And i'm pretty sure her mom would want her to just come to her and tell her rather than to find out by someone else or at a later time.
2007-07-26 22:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by melyssa star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for her. If you think it is best for her to tell her mother then maybe keep suggesting it but don't make it seem like you are trying to force her. Be supportive, but also use your head. Don't let her do anything self-destructive. If she wants to tell her mother, let her tell her in her own time. Eventually her mother will find out anyway. Bottom line is be a good friend.
2007-07-26 22:05:34 · answer #3 · answered by beat_but_not_broken07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you are here for her.The best thing to do is tell her to tell her mom & get over w/she might get mad at her but then they can start working on her the pregnents.Sorry if this is no help...But at the same time be there for your friend she will need some one to help her through this hard time in her life..
2007-07-26 22:03:49 · answer #4 · answered by ~One~Of~A~Kind~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
panda should be a supportive friend!!
if her parents are good people, try to convince her to tell them..
be there for her if her parents wont help her....
if she needs someone to accompany her to her doctors appointments, help her shop for baby stuff...
good luck.
2007-07-26 22:04:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She'll eventually have to tell her mom,but try to get her to a clicnic or a family planning program.maybe they could help.
2007-07-26 22:01:33 · answer #6 · answered by demonfirelife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is all out of your control... well, mostly. All you really can do is pray for her, and be there for her as a supportive friend.
2007-07-26 22:01:07 · answer #7 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be there to listen to her - if she's scared to tell her mom, she's probably a kid and will just need a listening ear... that will be a blessing to her
2007-07-26 22:01:15 · answer #8 · answered by Dulos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make her tell her mom first
you have a talk with her make sure she alright tell her she going to be ok.
2007-07-26 22:06:38 · answer #9 · answered by feistyfeline2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain her how to use condoms for next time.
2007-07-26 22:01:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋