How do you ask your lover to move out?

Answer 1

Make is simple, say "One of us is moving out and it's not me."

They should get the point. Hey, worked for me! LOL

Enjoy your day!

Answer 2

I really, truly hope that this is just a hypothetical situation, Damn the Mia, 'cause I have begun to think of you as a friend, and I hate to see my friends go through tough times.

However, if this must take place, you need to protect yourself by letting someone know what is going on so when the Sh*t hits the fan, so to speak, you aren't left in a vulnerable position where either you or the property is damaged by your ex lover.

The best way, then, is to make certain that someone knows to be ready to come to your aid if you need it, and then simply inform your ex that things aren't working out, and it's time to cut the strings and for him to move out. From what I can tell from your answers and questions, you can be judicious in your choice of words, and make him understand how you feel without upsetting him. From my experience (used to help counsel people in situations like this on a volunteer basis when I was getting my degree in psychology), it isn't so much what is said, but HOW it is said. If you call him a creep and insult him, you might be asking for trouble. If you are diplomatic, he will hopefully get the drift of things and start packing up without throwing your fish tank (or you) through the wall.

However you do it, though, don't put him on the defensive to the point that he feels he has to retaliate, or get in the last word. It's best he simply goes as soon as possible with as little fanfare as possible. If you are in an apartment and it is this near the end of the month, you'd better get crackin'! If there are papers involved, check the legality of tossing him...

Hope things work out for you!

Answer 3

Direct and to the point ...

1. Things aren't working anymore and I want you to leave.
2. I want to see other people.
3. Could you give me your half of the rent because after this month, I want you to move out.
4. I'm just not feeling you and I anymore and I don't want this commitment any longer.

These are some random move out lover phrases that I would use if faced with this situation.

Good Luck!

Answer 4

Move out lover and don't let the door hit your butt.

Answer 5

Sit them down, look 'em straight in the eye and say "Lover, please move out." And then stand up pat 'em on the back and sigh and then say "I already packed your stuff, nice knowin' ya!" And then walk out the door and wait outside and then when they walk out say "Gotcha!", but then say after a slight pause, "No, really, I want ya to move out."

Answer 6

50 Ways To Leave Your Lover

The problem is all inside your head
She said to me
The answer is easy if you
Take it logically
I’d like to help you in your struggle
To be free
There must be fifty ways
To leave your lover

She said it’s really not my habit
To intrude
Furthermore, I hope my meaning
Won’t be lost or misconstrued
But I’ll repeat myself
At the risk of being crude
There must be fifty ways
To leave your lover
Fifty ways to leave your lover

CHORUS:
You just slip out the back, Jack
Make a new plan, Stan
You don’t need to be coy, Roy
Just get yourself free
Hop on the bus, Gus
You don’t need to discuss much
Just drop off the key, Lee
And get yourself free

She said it grieves me so
To see you in such pain
I wish there was something I could do
To make you smile again
I said I appreciate that
And would you please explain
About the fifty ways

She said why don’t we both
Just sleep on it tonight
And I believe in the morning
You’ll begin to see the light
And then she kissed me
And I realized she probably was right
There must be fifty ways
To leave your lover
Fifty ways to leave your lover

CHORUS

Answer 7

Pack his bags, give him a couple of hundred bucks with a Dear John letter, and change the locks, all in one day preferrably.

Answer 8

Is there anyway you could move out?.. It is probably that cowards way out but it has worked for me.

Note- Depending on who you move out on, they may DESTROY whatever belongings you leave.

Answer 9

Throw their stuff out and change the locks
Or you can tell them and have the police to back you up. I've done both

Answer 10

Throw all his belongings on the front
lawn. When he arrives at the door say,
"You don't live here anymore."