how to be succesful with mental problems?

Question

I've battled with many psychological ailments throughout my life. I have a problem committing to things because other events in my life prohibit me. I've always been distracted by significant others or friends. I'm smart and very capable of success...but as soon as I'm in a relationship I become disabled at bettering myself. I get panicky not being around my partners a majority of the time...I think it's because I need to concentrate on too many aspects of my life. My partner is of first importance to me. is it wrong to feel like this?
is there anyway at all to be consumed by my relationship but at the same time be able to be successful...??
or should i just give up and not care about ever accomplishing a trade or specialty?

Answer 1

Hi Crisis,
I think, it depends on the goal you have set for yourself....
Sometimes people set goals that are unattainable, and they will never be able to get there, no matter what they do...
Other times the goal is achievable, but difficult, and well worth the effort to continue trying to achieve it....
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What you need to do in honestly asses you goal.. and determine if the goal itself and/or the time frame you have set to do it in, are actually achievable.... If so, keep trying, you'll be very proud when you get there.... When assessing your goal, do not be negative about yourself or your ability....
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Never give up! .. Step by step, and with your will power, you will succeed, if only YOU believe in yourself.. And don't rush things....
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I wish you all the luck you need, to succeed! :)

Thanks, for the question! :)

My regards!

Take care of yourself!

Edit : It is normal that your partner, is your number one priority, but she will support you, in everything you like to achieve... :) ..A good conversation, can help, too... that way she will understand, what you want out of this life.....

Answer 2

You can't have your cake and eat it to. Something has to suffer, you can't be at work half the time then at school then sleep and take care of household duties and still have time for your partner and family. Like many have told me, you should have thought about that before hand, you made your bed now lie in it. The truth is I wish people would shut the f*** up cause they have no clue as to what the hell they are talking about. It isn't possible thats what I'm telling you.