few questions about my period?

Question

1. I started on May I THINK
2. I SHOULD'VE started it THIS MONTH like last week
3. I've NEVER had you-know-what OR made out
4. I MAST(u know what) ONCE but it didn't feel good (or bad like i didnt feel anything) so I didn't try anymore.
5. I'm scared the doctor's gonna ask me those kind of questions (IN FRONT of my mom)
6. I keep WANTING to do it for some reason.
7. My panti is kind of wet ALOT. It's not like GEL but it's like WATER.

and i started ermm the first day i had my period was 3/26/07
soo yeaaa i had it regularly after.
how should i ask my mom politely if i can see the doctor in private?

Answer 1

If you started in May for the first time, you can't really look for your period to come regularly. It's very common to skip a month or even two the first year or two of having your period. Regularity comes with time. It's also common to have discharge. A little is normal. You only have to worry if it has a foul odor. If you're concerned, buy a package of panty liners. They're good to keep around anyway. Keep a few in your purse or backpack

Your doctor isn't going to ask you about mastubating. That would have no effect on when you get your period anyway. You should have at least a rough idea of the first day of the last period you had, though. Your doctor will likely ask that, but that's nothing to be embarrassed about, especially in front of your mother. It's just a natural part of life every woman has the pleasure of dealing with.

Answer 2

I'm guessing you only had spotting in May, and it was your first evidence of a period. When you first start, periods can be very irregular. It will take 6 - 12 months for most to settle into a regular cycle.

Masturbation or self-pleasuring takes practice to get it right. It is not 'bad', it is perfectly normal, but until you have experimented a bit, you won't know what gives you pleasure. Your hormones go wild when you start menstruating, and make you more obsessed with your sexuality

It is normal to have a clear discharge. this can be water-like for most of the month, and thickens to "egg white" consistency about half way betwen your periods, when you are ovulating. This is just the natural lubricating fluid of your vagina.

Nothing you have said makes me think you need to see a Dr, but if you do, you shouldn't feel embarased discussing anything with the Dr, nothing you are likely to describe will shock them! If you are embarassed talking about these things in front of your mother, then say so, you are entitled to see a Dr in private.

Answer 3

ask your mom to give u some space if your uncomfortable talking in front of her. the doc wont ask about the mast but everyone does it so dont be shy. the doc can under no circumstance tell your mom anything about what u say but you are young and discharge and irregular periods are normal

Answer 4

Having a discharge is normal - being wet.

Not all girls are regular when they first start.

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