OK.. I posted my question here bcuz i know most of you men are in this section..
Last week i asked my crush to a ballgame (his favorite team) and he said "nah, i shouldnt" so i was like ok... and since then i have been kind of ignoring him..
But today, my crush at work told my carpool buddy.. that if i had kept everything on the low low we would have talked..?
he was the one that told about 5 different people i know about.. so whats the deal here?? please help im confused
2007-07-26 13:04:33 · 14 answers · asked by Rodriguez #57 2 in Sports ➔ Baseball
Sounds like you need to look for a new crush.
2007-07-26 13:17:05 · answer #1 · answered by Frizzer 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I remember you asking this question last week. It's like an episode of the Real World right here in YA.
I would honestly say that he wanted to keep things on the low because he's probably interested in someone else too. And he wanted the time to get to know both of you and make up his mind, but just didnt know how to go about doing it.
Another possibility is that he might have felt obligated to be more than a friend if he would have gone to the game with you...could be that you gave him that feeling or otherwise. Maybe he thought you were being too aggressive.
If I had the chance to go to a game with a girl [especially if she bought the tickets] and I knew that we were only friends, I would go. But I wouldnt go, if it was the insinuation of a date that I wasnt interested in, or if I thought she was being overly aggressive.
Beer, sports, and that other thing...if they're in a question, then the answer is yes.
2007-07-26 20:40:41 · answer #2 · answered by Black&Orange 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It seems that he maight want to be with someone else from work, the fact that he said "no I shouldnt" and that he started to tell some people about it its to make the person that he has a crush that he had nothing to do with that and that he is not into you(how sad) but if he cant get with the other person well expect him to start talking to you again and this time he would be the that ask for those tickets just as an excuse to go out with you!! He expects you to be his back up!!(yep! must man are a**holes!) hope this helps! and let me know if I was right or not!!
2007-07-26 20:29:18 · answer #3 · answered by luis 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have seen a mix of answers that taken together say you ought to leave this jerk. Whether it's okay for him to talk about it, but not okay for you to, or....
You sound too sweet for this guy. I think that at best he just wants, wow, how to say it, all that a lot of guys want, nothing more. If he accepted the game invite, well, that would be like a date, more commitment than he wants (except for a hayride) and possibly an unwritten obligation of a return favor.
The gist of the answers I've seen agree with my assessment--look elsewhere, and be glad you got out early. I hope you haven't given more than the game invite already. Best wishes.
2007-08-01 02:44:22 · answer #4 · answered by wingo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all Your crush is an idiot. Secondly his comment about keeping everything on the low low mean either he is embarassed or trying to "play" you and you don't need that in your life to begin with. He is probably flattered that you like him (hence him telling people), but doesn't want to be with anyone at the time or may not like you back, and he doesn't want to lead you on. Its hard to say but he might come around in the long run so its up to you if you think he is worth sticking it out for and trying again. I wouldn't sweat it to much I mean guys are stupid we don't know what we want half the time when it comes to women, and the majority of the time when we figure it out were to late.
2007-07-26 20:33:52 · answer #5 · answered by mcbakerjr 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me that he realized he should have gone to the game with you but didn't want to blame himself for missing his chance, so he put it on you. Either that, or he's not into you and doesn't know how to tell you that. Maybe he's gay. All 3 are solid possibilities. I tell you what though, I would never turn a woman inviting me to a ballgame down. My 2 favorite things - sports and women.
2007-07-26 20:18:14 · answer #6 · answered by DoReidos 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, i remember. You gave him ample time to decide and he delayed answering until it was almost too late.
His comment: "if she had kept quiet", feels like he doesn't want you to talk about it.
To me, it sounds like office politics... he doesn't want folks to think less of him. Probably best to find a new crush.
2007-07-27 07:32:56 · answer #7 · answered by harmonv 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Next time ask a crush that you dont work with.
2007-08-02 13:58:56 · answer #8 · answered by Jr42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because mixing business with pleasure is a no-no and you let it all out. Workplace relationships make you water cooler talk. He wants to be low key. You ruined it.
2007-07-26 20:13:39 · answer #9 · answered by Veritas et Aequitas () 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He doesn't want o been seen with you or he is just a stupid jerk. If he wants you to keep it on the low, then he ain't worth it honey. You want to be with him and shouldn't have to hide.
2007-07-31 20:23:02 · answer #10 · answered by Pepper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋