OMG!!! i'm 15 years old, and just fond out i'm pregnant with my bf's baby!!! What do I do?!?!?!?!?!
2007-07-26 12:31:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
And should I tell my bf, or make the decision by my self?
2007-07-26 13:35:11 · update #1
OMG!! You must be flabbergasted! Most people will tell you to tell your mother/father. At 15, that may not be the best-option just yet. First, judging by the way you wrote the question you need help. This is an adult decision, that you should discuss with an adult, because it will have an effect on YOUR adult life. I would talk to a close adult relative/family friend like an aunt, cousin, "in-law" on one side. Some one who is down to earth and want flap their trap just yet to mom and dad. I don't know any normal parents who would be excited to hear this news, and this would be a traumatic experience for you.
At 15, you really need to weigh your options: abortion(not that i'm a fan, but its still an option), keeping it, or adoption. Telling mom and dad could cause you to do something that YOU might not want to do. This is a decision you need to make for yourself (but by talking to that certain person who will remain neutral to the situation) because only you will have to live and function for the remainder of your life about this decision.
2007-07-26 12:43:37 · answer #1 · answered by covergirl84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you do is let your parents know. If you feel uncomfortable about telling you dad, which is a normal reaction, tell your mom. Let her know that you need to talk to her. Ask her to come to your room and have a seat. Then say mom, I'm pregnant. The reason why I say to tell your mom because she can help you to make the right decisions. Hope things work out for you.
2007-07-26 12:35:22 · answer #2 · answered by PRECIANA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my dear.. u are still very young.. sorry to nag.. but u should still be concentrating on your studies at this age.. to solve the problems, no matter what, u should go and discussed it with your parents.. even if they were to lecture u.. after all, they are still your parents.. they gave birth to u.. and they have come across and had gone through alot of things in life more than u do... im pretty sure that they wont leave u in the lurch though they are still some parents who still did that 2 their kids.. soo, not to worry too much.. be brave and pluck up your courage 2 break the news to them.. because.. u have to be responsible for your own actions.. u have 2 face the consequences instead of running away from it.. i wish u gd luck.. ps: pls do not delay any further.. it won't do u any good.. =)
2007-07-26 12:44:09 · answer #3 · answered by baobei_baby82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell you're parents. They may be shocked and upset at first, but they love you and they will help you. you're boyfriend has a right to know too.
Once you tell you're parents then you guys can figure out the next step together.
Getting pregnant isn't going to be the end of the world, but it's hard.
Talk to your family. it isn't healthy to go through this alone becasue you are going to need medical attention through out your pregnancy.
2007-07-26 13:55:11 · answer #4 · answered by Banna luv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents right away! Together you'll all figure out a plan and what your next steps are. Don't wait! It will only make it worse. Be upfront now so you don't dwell on it. I hope it all works out for you. Good luck.
2007-07-26 12:34:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Build a time machine,, go back in time and tell your past self not to have sex without a condom....
Seriously though tell your parents... they will find out eventually. If you dont think you can handle a baby put him/her up for adoption.
2007-07-26 12:34:23 · answer #6 · answered by Indiana Raven 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
congrads talk to your parents( atleast ur mom) let her know and tell her how you feel and see if ur boyfriend is going to be there for the both of you can you hyandle the baby??? if i was ever to get prgnate at ur age or even now i wouldnt think of adaption or obortion
GoodLuck
2007-07-26 13:29:42 · answer #7 · answered by (((( $hortiee)))) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents. If you need to, you can go to a crisis pregnancy center...you can decide whether to keep the baby or adopt out.
2007-07-26 12:34:56 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Grow up and face the responsibility of this you have to tell your parents and tell him.Mostly your parents.
2007-07-26 12:37:20 · answer #9 · answered by peanutbulls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents. They might be upset but they will be there to help you. Good luck!
2007-07-26 12:34:27 · answer #10 · answered by Precious 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋