feel so confused!! im 19 and have no idea about anything!! lately ive been crying about the most idiotic of things and getting so angry!!! i want to get a job soon so i can make friends and get a nice flat but everything is just confusing me anymore!! im 19 and feel like ive got so many regrets,the little mistakes ive made i cant forget about and i dont know where my life is going!!!! i nedd some advice !!!!!!!! plz
2007-07-26 11:19:35 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
get over yourself, honey, live life, do everything you want to. Think "right, a new start" and don't let urself fall victim to these thoughts
you're strong enough
2007-07-26 11:24:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, Little Emz. The same one that longs for a man only seen? You are dwelling on the little things because the bigger things haven't happened yet to keep you occupied! Now, is it possible for you to do a bit of voluntary work until a paid job comes along? At the very least, its something to bung on the cv and it will keep you from sitting about thinking way too much! It will also give you some ideas about your future which is quite rightly in your thoughts at the moment. Its one step at a time at this stage and very frustrating - I may be a middle aged old bag but can remember being 19 and would hate to do it again! You are just on the brink of living and joining your own parade but it seems to take an age to get to it! Take one bold step and see the rest tumble into place!
2007-07-26 18:27:54 · answer #2 · answered by AUNTY EM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We go through life making loads of mistakes. It's whether we learn from them or not that matters. Nobody is perfect and no one has the right to judge others, you can wallow in self pity and get no where or you can be strong and forgive yourself for your mistakes, put the past behind you and move on, the choice is up to you. You can have the best job, friends, flat etc. but unless you stop living in the past you will not be happy! Live your life to the fullest, hurt no-one and most of all don't do anything to hurt yourself. Life is what you make it!
2007-07-30 17:11:59 · answer #3 · answered by caroline j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh, life has just begun for you. Celebrate! Yes, get a job and a flat. It is so much fun taking these important steps in life! You 'll meet people, you'll have gatherings at your flat, you'll feel like you have your own space!
It's normal to feel stress when you know your an adult and no longer a kid. But I myself prefer the adult thing over the kid thing.
I've made a lot of decisions in my life that I would say weren't the brightest. Just remember, every thing you do, wrong or right leads you down a path. You have control of your destiny! grab life by the horns and go for it!
2007-07-26 18:27:15 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot change the past so there's no reason to harp on it, just don't repeat your mistakes and learn from them. You have to focus on one thing at a time. First, apply for a job, several jobs. If you want people to like you then do your job well, now you'll have opportunities to make friends. We all make mistakes and do things we wish we could take back... that's life, but don't let it hold you back. Just be the best person you can be.
2007-08-03 13:14:52 · answer #5 · answered by Sugar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question. You need to get a job and get your life going in some direction. Do not think about what happened yesterday, think about the good things that can happen tomorrow. You need to get busy and keep busy. Why don't you go to a college and get some more education so that you can become something worthwhile. It sounds like you would like to be someone that helps other people. Try nursing, or some kind of profession like that. Aim high and keep your spirits up with new things in your life style.
2007-08-01 18:15:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know something?? It's really normal to feel like what you feel sometimes..you know, life doesn't always go on our way..life keeps going ups and downs...no matter what happened to you face it...no one can help you if you don't wanna help yourself...God even never puts the food in the bird's nest.. The bird should fly and looking for it again..And we, as human beings, we have more and more responsibility, and we are the only one who really responsible of our own lives...
I do believe you have ever achieved something in your life,was it a competition or anything, or you just imagined and refresh back the memory when you were happy because of something..Then Tell yourself that you can create a better new history in your lives!
Every human is unique... The only thing why we can't achieve something is only we have made the limitations inside our head!inside ot thoughts!
But the ultimate result is really in our hands...
Do nothing, nothing happens,
Take action then Miracle happens....
2007-07-31 05:10:13 · answer #7 · answered by Quensi3 Granizewska 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dear we've all made mistakes nobody is perfect.It's okay to be remorseful but it's not okay to let guilt weigh you down.I've also had issues in my life so I understand what you must be going through but there is a solution.When you a buy a car and it developes a fault that no one can fix you take the car to the manufacturers or you look for their service centre.When you've a lot of things confusing you and you don't know what to do;go to your creator in prayer.God loves you and wants to guide you but you have to open up heart to him.I know many young people don't believe in God but God is real.God will replace your confusion with peace and he'll guide you on what to do.
2007-07-26 18:47:47 · answer #8 · answered by Sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life can get crazy and overwhelming sometimes...and crying helps...
i think you should figure out what exactly is getting to you..and work from there
we all make mistakes in our lives...but mistakes are made so lessons can be learned...so learn your lessons and move on, because dwelling on them will only make you feel depressed
start looking for a job that you will enjoy and then put your whole heart into it...you will make friends and you'll soon make enough money to get your flat...
dont worry, just be strong, and before you know it...your life will be back on track...just try to get through this rough time..
good luck :)
2007-08-03 14:18:51 · answer #9 · answered by Taz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so young to have regrets,and feel the way you do.This kind of mood is for menopausal women,not a 19 yr. old.Shake this sh.t.and go get that job.and start the rest of your life.Forget the past.You can't ever go back and undo,so live with it.We all do.When you get my age(64) you will have invented mistakes.Don't sit in the corner,with your blankey over your head,Go get that life.Grab it by the tail and hold on.It will be one hell of a ride.
2007-08-03 14:54:01 · answer #10 · answered by lotteda717 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my first advice to you is stop being so hard on yourself,you will get a job and have friends,get a place of your own,you just have to work real hard,and i know you can do it,don't be confused and be upset over the little mistakes you have made,we all make mistakes,the only thing we can do is learn from our mistakes so we don't repeat them,good luck to you and your bright future
2007-08-01 07:58:11 · answer #11 · answered by tnsupermomwhit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋