a lot of my friends and they dont really have the biggest houses or as they say to me "rich." and i ma tired of hearing it (even though i love it)
anyway i think they only want to be my friend cause of my money. and if they say that to me i get reeally p!issed off at them but not show it. and i start hagging out with some1 else. but when they find out, they either start being a jerk to me. and my bro keeps bragging bout it and that dosnt really help. but my friends (i think) start either stop hagging out with me, or, they start wanting to hang at my house like 24/7 and they barely invite me either. and i try to be really nice to them. HELP!!!!!!!!!
2007-07-26 10:23:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think your friends are what I call "fair weather friends." Do you really want them to be your friends?
2007-07-26 10:28:27 · answer #1 · answered by Belen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that kind of thing is happening to you, I have the same problem though I don't have a very big house. I pretty much get everything I want by asking my parents on certain days and most of my friends call me rich. I know how it feels when someone says that, but it really does hurt you feelings to have your friends think that. All I can suggest is you can either talk to them or remind them that you aren't rich as they think. Being rich will be nice, but you have to work pretty hard to get certain things, right? Remind them that it takes a lot of work to get to a certain level on getting something. Everyone can be rich in many different ways and many people don't realize that it takes a lot of work to get that certain thing that people can't have. You can either talk to your friends or give them a warning. It's really up to you. Friends should understand that you or your parents work very hard to get something for yourselves to be happy and I am sure that is the case on what your going through (I might be wrong, but it's a guess). Talk to your friends. See what they say and try telling them that what they say isn't true. Tell him how you feel and try not to yell or argue about it either. It makes things worst and that your problem will be bother. Just stay cool when you tell them. ^^ I wish you luck on solving this problem of yours!
2007-07-26 10:32:08 · answer #2 · answered by Chole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as you said you like that they call you Rich?? How can you have friends who appreciate you and those who are using you? You will have to find some other friends in another place...But you cant rub you status in there face either...Dont take anyone to your house, just hang out at the park or somewhere you like to hang out but not your house...that will avoid the Moochers.....
2007-07-26 10:34:13 · answer #3 · answered by **Mishelly** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably aren't rich. you could by a mansion but if you live in a poor area it wouldnt cost nearly as much as a mansion in a place like la jolla or santa barbara. explain that to them. and
btw...you spelt ifle tower wrong. its spelt like this: eiffle tower
2007-07-26 15:34:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** them they are not real friends and u can let them know u dont have **** your parents do when u turn 18 are you gonna have a big house?
2007-07-26 10:27:57 · answer #5 · answered by LILLIE K 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find new friends
2007-07-26 10:29:21 · answer #6 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋