I have a question well the other day i was on my boyfriend computer and i found him looking up some naked girls and girls in thongs also girls in bathing suits. i mean im not fat at all and im good looking so idk should i be man at this? for him looking at that stuff?
2007-07-26 09:42:00 · 15 answers · asked by roxie 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
That's just the way guys are! It has nothing to do with him not being satisfied with you. Guys have ALWAYS loved looking at porn because it's in their nature. If you brought it up, he'd just be angry with you for nosing around on his computer. I'm not saying it's right because it's not but it's just the truth. If you want, give him pics of you like that. Then he'll still enjoy porn, but it'll be of his girlfriend as opposed to random girls...
2007-07-26 09:46:49 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i would be a little upset but I would not make a big deal of it. guys are like that, they like looking at girls. it has nothing to do with how you look, he's just being a curious guy. if it wasn't normal for guys to look at women then why do we have playboy, hooters, strip clubs, etc. there are so many temptations out there for both men and women. I would just let him know you saw the pics and it upset you a little. If he doesn't care that you got upset then you should be mad, but if he takes your concerns to heart i would just let it go from there, and another thing stop looking through his computer. If you dont trust him then you shouldn't be with him.
2007-07-30 15:59:18 · answer #2 · answered by *~*fizzy*~* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be ticked off... if he really likes you he shouldnt be looking at other womens bodies. Its almost like he is cheating on you mentally.. I would break up with him unless you really like him to the point were you want to spend the rest of your life with and make sure he is the same because you can find someone better.. no offense to you or you boi im just telling you what i think!!
2007-07-26 16:58:42 · answer #3 · answered by ~*Taylor*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just being a guy, looking at naked women's body. It's not that he doesn't think you're attractive, or he thinks you're ugly. Those were probably on there even before he met you! I don't think you should, unless it was of someone that you two personally know, UNLESS it was on there before you both met. But I'm pretty sure he's just being a boy looking at them girls in those bikinis, nothing to worry about.
You should ask him about it, be all "so babes..it appears you like women in bikinis eh?" haha.
No worries.
xx
2007-07-26 16:48:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You probably can't help but be a little ticked off, but it is totally normal. Men like to look, even if they have the most beautiful girlfriend in the world. Try not to let it get to you.
(BTW, I'm female. I keep trying to change my gender on my profile, but it still looks male. LOL)
2007-07-26 17:31:08 · answer #5 · answered by christnp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should be mad, because he has not fully given himself to you. But at the same time, don't complain too much because you have exposed yourself to him and allowed him to do as he pleases with you without the commitment of marriage.
2007-07-26 16:57:45 · answer #6 · answered by Marty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay off his computer.
Act like the girls in the pictures.
2007-07-26 16:46:33 · answer #7 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
All men look at scantily clad women, whether it's on the computer or by Playboy magazine. He's being a normal guy.
My husband gets Playboy.
2007-07-26 16:47:21 · answer #8 · answered by Tara662 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No, you should not be mad. It is not porn. It is normall for men to look at those kinds of pictures of women. It is nothing to be concerned about.
2007-07-26 17:25:57 · answer #9 · answered by Strong Happy Marriage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALL men look at that stuff, its like their hobbies, its an automatic thing for them to do on the computer
2007-07-26 16:47:14 · answer #10 · answered by saraann24 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋