shes changing her name to katie(which is my name) shes copies everything i do and i dont no what to do! plz help me!
2007-07-26 09:31:09 · 10 answers · asked by kutiepie4994 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell her that you don't copy people the way she does. tell her that if she wants to be just like you, she needs to be herself.
2007-07-26 09:34:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
at first it might seem flattering when somebody copies what you do but when it reaches the extent of what you've described, i think that she's totally obsessed with copying you, which is scary. reminds me of a movie.. i think you should tell her to love herself for who she really is. she sounds like such an insecure person and could be the reason she's copying you is that she wants to feel accepted. copying a person because you think they are a good example is fine... as long as you don't lose your true identity by becoming a clone!
2007-07-26 09:41:58 · answer #2 · answered by Alexa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hie Tizz. Well to me it is better for her to be herself by rather of she copying you, because every one has their own style and their own way to go for it and when she starts copying with you then she doesn't know her own style yet, so it is better for you to sit and talk to her because when you have explain to her then for sure she will understand and she will understand, when she has understand then she will start thinking and she can come up with her own decision and she will change her style of being her own self and from there she will not be copying you anymore and when she have done it then it is good for her to ask your opinion and when you have give that then for sure she will not be asking of your way. Try this and hope it might help you....................
ALL THE BEST..................
2007-07-26 09:50:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she should not change her name, and that she needs to be unique. Besides, copying other people isn't always healthy for you, such as how everyone wants to be like the anorexic models.
2007-07-26 11:12:51 · answer #4 · answered by neopets_green_kittycat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that's flattering that she wants to be like you - she obviously thinks highly of you, but maybe you should let her know you like for who she is and that you're two separate people who don't need to be the exact same. Changing her name is a little bizarre. If it bothers you let her know gently as a friend.
2007-07-26 09:36:50 · answer #5 · answered by needstoknow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to talk to her about this because its not healthy. Its kind of weird and it sounds like she has a self esteem problem. Maybe she really looks up to you and just wants more attention from you, but I would definitely talk to her about it and ask her whats going on.
2007-07-26 09:34:51 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to extricate yourself from the relationship
she isn't you and you can't have her becoming a second you
cut the cord and move on, harsh though it may be
if you want to continue the relationship, set boundaries, if they are broken, then you must make the break
2007-07-26 09:36:35 · answer #7 · answered by sig21792 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set a good example.
2007-07-26 09:34:37 · answer #8 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds like a creepy stalker. no but, she needs to be herself. i mean you became friends with HER not YOURSELF. (if that makes sence) tell her you like her just the way she is/was.
2007-07-26 09:34:28 · answer #9 · answered by megan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg, that's creepy. maybe u should explain to her gently that it's good to be unique.....or do what i would do: Pretend to be her for a while and see how she likes it.
2007-07-26 09:34:40 · answer #10 · answered by pepperland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋