I have a question well the other day i was on my boyfriend computer and i found him looking up some naked girls and girls in thongs also girls in bathing suits. i mean im not fat at all and im good looking so idk should i be man at this? for him looking at that stuff?
2007-07-26 09:27:53 · 15 answers · asked by roxie 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
It has nothing to do with you, a guy just like to be by himself every now and then ;)
2007-07-26 09:31:28 · answer #1 · answered by Mark R 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yeah, it's a guy thing and I wouldn't worry about it. We're very visual creatures.
It doesn't mean that he's not attracted to you or anything like that. Men have more of a disconnect between sexual arousal and emotional closeness than women do. The women in those pictures turn us on on a purely visual/physical level. We don't really think of them as real people really, just sexualized bodies. Actually on the occassions I do look at stuff like that I try to avoid thinking of them as people, because then I can't help thinking of what they'd think if they could see what I was doing and I feel like a real perv.
2007-07-26 14:03:56 · answer #2 · answered by Somes J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's normal guy thing. Once in a while guys like to see other girls. It's better for him just looking at girls on the computer than actually has another girlfriend, right?
2007-07-26 10:03:39 · answer #3 · answered by sinyo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So you sneaked on to his computer and looked where you shouldn't because you don't trust him, and then found what you didn't want to find.
Maybe you should just leave him his privacy. People who sneak around like this are to be pitied. It shows a huge lack of emotional development.
You should admit what you did and apologize, and see if he still wants anything to do with you.
2007-07-26 10:44:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal. I'm with you though, I don't really LIKE my guy looking at it, but I know that it isn't fair to him to ask him not to.
Try letting him catch you looking at sexy naked guys sometime...then he'll either feel bad and if you talk to him he can quit or tone it down on the naked girls, or then at least you won't feel bad for looking at hot sexy guys, he gets his you get yours ;]
From what I hear they don't even really see these girls as people who are realistic or anything, they just see them as sexual objects and as much as my inner femnist screams about that, at least that means he won't be comparing them to you or at least he isn't actually attracted and crushing on these people. Better he look at hot strangers than be out there doing something with someone else, right?
2007-07-26 10:09:18 · answer #5 · answered by crimsonfury73 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No, you should not be mad. All men look at women, just like all women look at men. It's no harm in looking and admiring all the beauty that the Lord has placed around us.
2007-07-26 09:39:48 · answer #6 · answered by J R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you should have not been on his computer without his ok first. If you did have his permission to be on his computer, it's a whole different matter. In that case, you have every reason to ask him about it then ask him not to do it any more. It shows you no respect at all. However, if you did not have his permission to be on his computer and was snooping, you really can't talk to him about it.
2007-07-26 09:36:55 · answer #7 · answered by Mamapie2u 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
it is exclusively for males, darling, you cant get it
our eyes send images directly to the lower half of our body then the brain, and may reach the heart
but your girls take different rout,
eyes - heart - brain- and may reach down
2007-07-26 11:27:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you are too curious lady,what are you looking for to his computer?That's very normal for guys looking at on ladies.Be more sexy for him and i hope he would stop checking out other ladies to the computer.
2007-07-26 09:57:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's normal. Try to dress up and act like the women he looks at.
2007-07-26 09:39:20 · answer #10 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
don't be mad, it means little. we like looking at girls. at one point we can be infatuated with one and the next moment another. it doesn't mean that we love our girls any less. if anything, i think that by him looking at girls online, it may help your relationship...as in, he will want to do something with you afterwards.
2007-07-26 09:34:39 · answer #11 · answered by greenfern 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋