I slept over my BEST FRIENDS house. Her brother was there and hes my friend too. But i'm 131/2 and hes 15. My friend was taking a shower and her brother called me to his room. When i went to his room he started kissing me. Then he put me on his bed. He kept trying to open my legs and he kept lifting my skirt up. He even put ONE ON. He promised me i wouldn't get pregnant and he said he had THE PILL in his closet. I kept telling him no but he kept trying to.....u know. Then he tried doing other things too. I wont say them. Lets just say its rated X. I finally pushed him off of me and i slapped him. I went to my friends room confused on what just happened. He was my friend. But what do i do not to feel weird around him. This was NOT rape. Because he opened the door for me when i left. But what do i do. I still want to see my my friend but her brothers always home. What should i do? He said he was sorry. I know for a fact he was drunk from vodka but what the heck do i do. He said srry!!!!
2007-07-26 09:25:34 · 20 answers · asked by ☆ ♥ Lil Ms. Sunshine♥☆ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you have a 15 year old friend getting drunk on vodka, you need new friends. A guy that tries to force himself on you, drunk or not, is not a friend. Dress down when you're around them if you choose to still be around him. Don't flirt. Don't wear tight clothes, don't wear low cut shirts, don't wear shorts more than 2 inches above your knee. Be modest in everything you do so he doesn't think you want him.
2007-07-26 09:36:15 · answer #1 · answered by justcallmeriss 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well several things are going on here. First of all ...where are the girls parents? Second of all...WHY is a 15 year old drunk on Vodka?! ....which brings me back to "WHERE THE HELL ARE THEIR PARENTS?"
(Clears throat)...Now....I suggest that You have adult supervision when and if you go over to their house. Second of all...make it a rule that all doors stay open at all times while you are there. Thirdly....Why not have the girl come over to your house?!
Please...don't put yourself back into that kind of situation. You need to let an adult know as soon as possible. Because next time he might not stop and he might not put one on. Protect yourself and stay away and tell an adult. This shouldn't be going on.
(P.S.) ...Him opening the door for you when you left doesn't mean $h!t !
2007-07-26 16:36:22 · answer #2 · answered by Pixie Dust 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your friend.
Alcohol is not an excuse. It only lowers ones inhibitions to do what they already want to do.
He needs to be stopped from becoming more agressive, and you need to learn to not be afraid to speak up to adults and friends when one of your other friends is behaving inappropriately, illegally, or irresponsibly.
Unless he had the abortion pill in his closet, no pill would help you from getting pregnant unless you took it daily for some time before having sex, and pills should only be taken under a doctors supervision. A simple birth control pill to one person can cause serious medical risks in others.
And even if it is the "morning after pill" it has serious side effects, and will force you to live with the fact that you had to take an abortion pill because he wanted to do something to you. Sex is not something to do because the other person wants you to, sex is something that two people both want and are prepared for the future consequences of. You are young and should be playing, learning, and having fun. Save worrying about getting pregnant for later on in life.
The boy needs to have help with this overly agressive borderline rape behavior before he does rape someone.
Don't go to your friends house until you tell your friend what her brother tried to do to you.
You really should talk about this with an adult that you can trust. If you are worried about adults getting mad, well they would be a whole lot more mad dealing with a rape/pregnacy case, so think about that.
Sorry does not cut it, if he can just say he is sorry every time he tries something like this, his aggresive behavior will only progress further until people get hurt worse.
You are young, but no need to be stupid, think about this responsibly and talk to an adult about it. seriously.
2007-07-26 16:37:50 · answer #3 · answered by mczapzap 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This sounds a little forcefull to me. You're right, it wasn't a rape, but it was an attempted one. You said no and he kept going. The only reason he let you out of his room was because there were other people there, and he appoligiezed because he didn't want you to tell anybody about it. You really should tell someone about it. And I wouldn't go over there for a while. Drunk or not he should know better.
2007-07-26 16:37:43 · answer #4 · answered by seaelven 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No you should not go to your friends home. If you keep showing up he will think you WANT to play some more. Drinking alcohol is bad for adults I cant imagine how dangerous it is for a 15 y/o. See your friend at your house. If this boy bothers you again tell your parents. He may be successful next time.
2007-07-26 16:32:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
THIS WAS ATTEMPTED RAPE!!! Just because he was drunk was no excuse, do not risk your safety by going back there, you also need to tell someone what happened, if not your parents or your friend, a counseler or clergy person. DON NOT PUT YOURSELF IN A POSITION TO LET THIS HAPPEN AGAIN< IT WILL, AND THIS TIME HE MAY NOT STOP!
2007-07-26 16:30:26 · answer #6 · answered by labadala l 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
At your age, you need to tell your parents. And stay away from this creep. Vodka is no excuse but what's he doing getting drunk at his age? You may need to find other friends.
2007-07-26 16:29:49 · answer #7 · answered by missingora 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
him is 15 drunk from vodka?just dont go to your friend house anymore or tell you mom ,dear you have 18 years with no sex and 65 with ,so dont push tinks ....you were born with brain use it..good look â¥
2007-07-26 16:45:38 · answer #8 · answered by somente_por_amor 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not ever, ever go over there again. Call the police and tell them this story and let them decide if this was rape or not. You need to tell someone. Next time he might do things even worse to you. He has to be stopped. Please promise you will call the police or tell someone in authority today. Do not let this go!
2007-07-26 16:29:53 · answer #9 · answered by Sassie 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Obviously he knew he was drunk and he said srry..................... I guess U should forgive him but you should still tell your best friends and his parents even if he is your friend. .......Or you could only go to her house when her brother isn't home or tell her to come over to your house. Atleast he opened the door for you when you snaped him out of it. You know, he could have done alot worst. Even you know that. Be on guard.
2007-07-26 16:33:08 · answer #10 · answered by Lianne 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋