Is there a way a guy can become less horny? He wants sex every single day, which I know some people can do, but if he doesn't get it every single day with no breaks in between he gets very aggrivated and angry. somtimes he gets mad at me if he really wants it 2 times a day and I just cant. He's a pretty big guy down there so I ususally can't take too much. Is there a medical condition that makes men too horny or is there a way to "calm him down".
2007-07-26 08:24:36 · 18 answers · asked by Agnostic 4 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Get him some girly magazines like PlayBoy or Hustler, and tell him to go please himself. Tell him to take a cold shower or something, because you can't handle that much sex. Make sure he knows to respect your wishes, and don't give it up just to please him. If he gets physical with you, one quick way to turn him off is a good swift kick in the balls. ;-)
Talk to a doctor about it, and make sure he isn't taking any medication like Viagra. Also, if he's taking steroids, that will increase not only sex drive but anger. You can also ask his doctor if there are medical alternatives to things he's taking now that DO inhibit sexual arousal.
Remember, though, that no matter how horny he is, he should always respect what you want. Sex should never be about one person just pleasing the other.
2007-07-26 08:37:15 · answer #1 · answered by customfordgirl79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a 18 year old on testostrone boosters, which by the way make you horny as hell, and am also very well hung, I would tell him this:
GET A ******* HOBBY
I lift weights, that really helps me out, I take testostrone boosters cuz they make me feel good. The reason he is horny is cuz he has a lot of test. 2 times a day is jack **** by the way...
get a friend, do threesomes, let him pound her in the morning, you in the afternoon haha.
But really, he needs a ******* hobby. Something to get his mind off sex, and you need to give head or something because yeah, your vagina can only handle so much.
2007-07-26 15:39:58 · answer #2 · answered by Brian D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he has a higher sex drive than you, this is not a difficult problem to get around. Tell him to just jack off if he needs it and you don't want it. Or, alternately, there are ways of pleasuring somebody w/out actually having to have penetrative intercourse with them (hand job, 69 etc.).
2007-07-26 21:12:16 · answer #3 · answered by Somes J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may sound crazy, but the best way to make him a shrinking violet is to be rough with his penis. He may like it the first few times, but there will come a point where he'll be afraid to let you touch it. Every time he wants sex, grab it and be brutal with it. In between sex, grab his crotch and squeeze hard. Pretty soon, he'll be as meek and mild as you want.
2007-07-26 16:13:55 · answer #4 · answered by S K 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps you might look into other ways of pleasuring your man that don't involve intercourse. He doesn't have a medical condition, what he has is a high sex drive.
2007-07-26 15:29:22 · answer #5 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, most guys (well to be honest, me) can't keep that pace up for very long.
The way I see it, reinforce that no means no, or try to wear him out.
You can always to oral or tease him while he masturbates.
2007-07-26 15:28:45 · answer #6 · answered by Daniel R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if you two need counseling. If not counseling communicate your feelings towards him. You say he is "big", there are other ways to give him an orgasm, than just intercourse.
2007-07-26 15:28:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's called respect. He lacks it. He has no right to be upset with you, and if he needs it that bad, he should find someone else to be with. Tell him that you love him, but you are not a machine.
2007-07-26 15:29:48 · answer #8 · answered by Ace 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
we used to think that taking saltpeter would work , i dont know if it does or not ..never tried it , but the military used to use it all the time and i think they still do ...dont quote me on that though>
2007-07-26 15:53:45 · answer #9 · answered by thunderson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there - the only thing that I can suggest use alternative methods....
2007-07-26 15:28:19 · answer #10 · answered by indiansbearsandangels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋