Is there a shortage of Alpha males? Reason for feminism?

Question

I don't meet too many Alpha males like myself. I meet a lot or insecure girly-men on a regular basis. This must be hard for women... not having too many REAL men around. Is this why women are trying to be more like men? With feminism and all....?

Answer 1

Ooooooohhhhhh, Bad Brad! You’re sooooooooo masculine! It makes me want to quit my job and go home and make cookies for you! Or would you prefer me just making homemade crackers that taste good with beer?

And you can still see all the women you want, just so you continue to support me in the manner I’ve grown accustomed to as a working woman, hold the door open for me, and buy me flowers, expensive dinners, and jewelry.

I’m only doing this to make you feel like the Alpha Male you are, honey.

EDIT: Giggly Giraffe! Have you ever heard of editing? Just copying and pasting text from somewhere else may make a point, but Jeez! At some point, it turns into blah, blah, blah!

I'm on the same side as Happy Bullet on this one!

Answer 2

It's never been the case that all men were "Alpha" males; Alphas being the one in the group that lives only for beating the cr*p out of all the others (thus, universally hated).

Nor are those men you're meeting so many of "girly" (your obvious sexual attraction to them has a different cause).

You're clearly incapable of understanding the reason for feminism, which is that it's a long over-due acknowledgement that women are not property, but human beings.

I guess that's why you falsely assume that women do not like HUMAN men, who understand this concept (that is, men who aren't brainless brutes or, as you call them, "alpha" males).

Most women DO prefer relations with humans, especially intelligent (that means "smart") ones. They do NOT like being treated like sh*t by the brainless brutes (at least, most don't).

This is, no doubt, the reason why no women you know will have anything to do with you.

So don't feel bad for women.

Just because none are with YOU, somehow they'll survive -- even thrive -- in human relationships, with actual human beings.

And since you obviously hate all women, that suits everyone just fine.

If you get lonely, you could buy one of those plastic blow-up girls. I bet you could even dominate the conversation with them.

Answer 3

Thanks for letting us know that you are part of a vanishing breed! I happen to be married to an Alpha male, and I know of many that are still around. But as far as the "shortage" that you mention being the reason women are into feminism, I doubt that's the reason. Women that are interested in the rights and betterment of all members of society, do so because they believe in equal treatment for all, which apparently you know very little about. Read up on it.

Answer 4

Huh? XD! I think you'll hear women say that if their relationship was all about confirming and taking care of their guys ego. It's not necessarily to do with feminism but pure relationship problems that exist because some men don't accept women that can take care of themselves.

Answer 5

No, I don't think so. And all of this depends on what exactly is your definition of an alpha male. I consider myself a feminist, but that doesn't mean that I'm MASCULINE. And I like guys who look are manly - just not to the point that they are like big ignorant gorillas.

Answer 6

The funniest was when Al Gore hired a female to try to teach him to become an Alpha male.

Answer 7

Feminism is simply the desire for gender equality, namely, for women to be equal to men. I, for one, don't want to be like a man. I like to wear makeup, flat iron my hair, and especially wear dresses. Misogynistic (that means 'woman hater' for your limited intelligence level) men like you who consider themselves to be alpha males and 'strong' are really just overcompensating for a very insecure self. Everyone is insecure, no matter how 'macho' they think they are. Perhaps you should move to Iraq...you'd probably get your rocks off by stoning women for showing their ankles.

Answer 8

Yes, but beta males aren't necessarily girly. They just don't spend as much time trying to prove their masculinity as alphas. They're secure with theirs.

Answer 9

Frankly, I think that a strongly dominant personality simply isn't as common as other personality types... in both men and women.

I suspect that feminism merely gave dominant-personality women permission to be such.

Given my personality and my husband's personality, yeah, I wish I could feel confident in his ability to make wise decisons, lead our home, etc, but.... Something about flying by the seat of one's pants...(He likes to, I don't...)

Answer 10

There is a lack in good men if that's what you are saying. But just like in the animal kingdom, there can only be one per area.