okay so I have a friend named hector and we only met 5 times and the 3 time I met him I gave him bj but was he using me?
then the 5 time I made out with him but were just friends and he aways likes to get to the subject of sex and I kinda like that and like having that fun with him. so are we friends with benefits or was he using me?
oh and wenever had sex :)
2007-07-26 06:52:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
it's the same thing to me, i would rather think of it as friends with benefits! but really you both are using each other, for pleasure!
2007-07-26 06:55:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this for real?
There is absolutely no difference. If you respected yourself you would save that for someone that loves you. Friends with benefits=used. I have done this before and I know all too well. When its over they talk about you like you are trash. When you need them as a friend they aren't there. And when they meet a girl they ARE interested in you are history. You need to think harder about your actions and think about STDs because I am sure you are not the only friend with benefits that he has. A real friend would not use you.
2007-07-26 13:57:51 · answer #2 · answered by CaliGirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a friend with benefits is an everyday friend even when your not between the sheets and doesn't ask you for anything other than what your already giving up. If your being used then its just "hi & bye" whenever they want some and doesnt care about what is going on with you.
2007-07-26 13:59:04 · answer #3 · answered by ~♥Amanda Dawn♥~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no difference between being used by someone and having a friend with benefits. Its really the same thing.
2007-07-26 14:01:37 · answer #4 · answered by Bee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as you and him are both ok with staying friends and doing stuff, that would be friends with benefits, though that usually only lasts a little bit because one of you will start liking the other one as more than a friend and then it would be using you.
2007-07-26 13:56:05 · answer #5 · answered by dial_h_for_hero_156 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Using you.
2007-07-26 13:55:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If the feeling is mutual it's friends with benefits. If you're expecting more out of this and he's not he could be using you. Ask what his expectations are out of all this.
2007-07-26 13:57:27 · answer #7 · answered by Gabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FWB is still your friend in the morning. Hector wasn't your friends for very long
2007-07-26 13:56:11 · answer #8 · answered by greenfrogs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY MY NAMES HECTOR TOO!
if you enjoy it, and dont expect a relationship, its friends with extras if you want a relationship your being used.
2007-07-26 13:56:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends with benefits use each other, and they're okay with that.
2007-07-26 13:55:45 · answer #10 · answered by 42ITUS™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋