Can't seem to find a secure woman anyware... not even the gorgeous ones. Is it because I'm an Alpha male and women find themselves falling for me too hard? You all need to relax... if you're good in bed, Brad will ALWAYS come back at some point :)
2007-07-26 06:36:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Why are secure men so rare in this forum?
2007-07-26 06:43:08 · answer #1 · answered by wendy g 7 · 9⤊ 3⤋
Secure YOUNG women (under 35) are very hard to find because we are still seeking to find ourselves and find it necessary to compare ourselves to others. We are very critical of ourselves more than anyone else, so nothing is ever good enough and there is always some flaw or imperfection that we think we need to fix.
On the other hand, secure OLDER women (35+) are much easier to find because there are more of them who have figured out who they are and what they want out of life. They can better accept who they are and love all of their flaws. They do not feel as much of a need to compare themselves to other because they are happy with what they have. They have taken control of their own lives.
The main difference is life experience, so I'm not saying that it necessarily has to do with age. Generally, the more life experience a woman has, the more secure she is.
2007-07-26 14:00:55 · answer #2 · answered by Heart of Fire 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Must be just in your universe. I work daily with a great number of very secure woman. They know what they want, know how to get it, and don't settle for less.
They are secure in their opinions, their looks, and their abilities, and are respected by we men and by their fellow women coworkers.
Maybe you need to find some new places to look.
2007-07-26 13:49:31 · answer #3 · answered by ghouly05 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Now here's a transparently self-serving load of HOOOARGGGHHHH......excuse me....sorry I got some of it on them cheap red pumps of yers question that would make Phil Donohue look like a piker for milking his half-assed whup *** on a Lyndon La-Roach bone bag a whiter shade of bleached by comparison
blaaaaarg. Alpha male. That's a hot one. Where'd you get certified?
Secure women are rare because they suffocate pretty quickly when you lock them in a safe.
Who's got the eggs? The bus is coming!
2007-07-26 14:46:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Geez, Brad...Way to jinx yourself...
When you find a "secure woman," you'll be in awe of her, and she'll be all like
"back off Bradley, you're crowding me,"
and you'll be all, "but I love you!"
And she'll be like, "Why can't I find any secure men? Sorry Brad, I've gotta go..."
2007-07-26 13:54:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
brad, we are so scared that you wont come back to us. we cant imagine living out our boring dull lives without you in it. we would do anything to make sure you keep coming back.
is that what you mean? i dont really know anyone like that, so i dont think you are looking in the right places.
2007-07-26 21:12:51 · answer #6 · answered by Minerva 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was going to say it's probably pretty hard to find a secure guy, too. That doesn't seem to be your problem, though. I shan't cast my pearls before swine.
2007-07-26 13:44:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
because no women would ever pay attention to you so it's hard to find any woman much less a secure one.
2007-07-26 14:29:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I know tons of secure men and women..where r u looking....
2007-07-26 18:10:06 · answer #9 · answered by Danu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want me to be a secure woman, you need to tie the silk ropes tighter around my wrists…
2007-07-26 13:51:58 · answer #10 · answered by Rainbow 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
As the brilliant Alexyss Tylor would say, "It's the power of the pay-nus!"
And I'm sure your pay-nus is very powerful. I suppose it's a blessing and a curse.
2007-07-26 13:43:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋