Why is it when you meet a guy and theres nothing there but friendship, nothing else, he always get annoyed and awkward when you go on a date with another lad?
2007-07-26 05:58:08 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think its cos he really likes you!!...but may be nervous about being turned down if he asked you out..!!...men are really more insecure than woman!!
2007-07-26 06:03:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Normally, if there's NOTHING else but friendship on both sides then there shouldn't be the awkwardness.
Are you sure there aren't some feelings there on the guy's side?
Or maybe he thinks, if you are dating some other guy, that he will be pushed out as your friend, that the other guy may not want him around or you may not have time for him, if you're dating someone.
I guess, I always prefer the direct approach and would talk to my guy friend about it. Something like, "I'm getting the feeling you're bothered/annoyed by my dating other guys and just wanted to check in with you about it."
2007-07-26 13:03:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men do not have friendships with women. They are keeping you around so they can make the move when you break up with the other guy.
If you doubt this find another guy that is a friend, take off your cloths and pull him in to bed. Do you think he will say no?
2007-07-26 13:03:00 · answer #3 · answered by eric l 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't care if a female friend of mine dates, gets married, switches teams...whetever. I'm there as a friend and as a friend any decision they make that changes a part of their life, I need to be there just as I always had.
But in your case, they probably had feelings they didn't address.
So I can understand that some men have these issues but I don't understand why they do so.
But I have the same problem with women. I have friends that got distant when I met someone.
2007-07-26 13:09:58 · answer #4 · answered by chaoss13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you talk to a man he thinks he has a chance of holding your hand and skipping through fields of poppies.....men will always do this - always -expect nothing different, until you meet a well balanced individual of course, possibly one that has had a girlfriend!!!!!
2007-07-26 13:07:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If the guy gets annoyed, it means you were wrong and that there were feelings there on his part which were more than simple friendship.
2007-07-26 13:06:33 · answer #6 · answered by John Timothy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Haven't you ever heard that men and women can't be "just friends". There is always some sort of attraction from at least one towards the other. He probably likes you (romantically).
2007-07-26 13:29:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Might feel threatened and afraid that he'll lose your friendship. Think it works the same both ways at times.
2007-07-26 13:01:32 · answer #8 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Alice b is closest me thinx.. Men get jealous even if he dose n't fancy you massively. He still thinks you should like him and will get jealous and awkward around you because you kinda rejected him. That's hard thing to take, who does likes rejection on any level..??
2007-07-26 13:23:27 · answer #9 · answered by sg69 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they secretly like you and they're jealous and like spending time with you. Maybe I watch Kim Possible to much but that's the best I've got.
2007-07-27 05:49:06 · answer #10 · answered by Lily R 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its an ego thing.And when a girl you really like goes off with another fella it's gutting but life.Im sure he will get over it.
2007-07-26 16:51:06 · answer #11 · answered by Storyteller 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋