what do you guys look for in a girl (personality), and what catches your attention, (looks or personality)?????
2007-07-26 05:29:08 · 13 answers · asked by kycamalebr 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well i go for personality. now i wont sit here and say it dont matter about the looks. YES, it does matter. i need to be physically attracted, but thats not the utmost of importance. personally myself, i wouldn't wan't to be with a cute girl, and doesnt have a personality. to me thats more important, and may cause problems for me later on down the line.
2007-08-03 05:24:51 · answer #1 · answered by Tony E. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's face it looks gets the attention. However it seems that many times a girl with extra good looks forgets to spend time developing her personality/character. So a decent looking girl with a great personality will eventually attract a lot of interest - it usually takes guys a few years to figure this out.
2007-08-02 23:18:24 · answer #2 · answered by J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don’t care what guys tell you to your face the truth is first whets you’re dating age anything between 18-40 most guys want younger women. We like long hair or hair or a little teased
. Showing a little leg is always good. By the way make sure your you are in shape if you need to drop a couple of pounds do that. After you catch are attention with you hair and body we look at your teeth. Then we hope your not a *****. Then as time goes on we think yes she cool she looks great in a dress and can have a beer with me. She’s cool. Bye the way I am a single guy working a white collar job. I have to where a tie 3 days a week. I deal with presidents and owners of million dollar companies so I bull **** with these guys 80% think link me. If you have anymore questions email me bill0498@yahoo.com
Good luck
Bill
2007-07-26 12:43:17 · answer #3 · answered by Bill C 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When I was a much younger man I have to be honest and say that it was more about the looks. But with maturity and life experience I have learned that a personality will get a person a lot further than their looks anytime. Besides our shells will all fade over time but our personality, beliefs and morals will be with us throughout our lives.
2007-07-26 12:33:20 · answer #4 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you just meet them, then obviously it has to be some sort of physical attraction. For me, hair is always the first thing I notice. But in the case of someone you spend enough time around, personality will be a key factor. I have actually fallen in love with someone I spent a lot of time around, even though the relationship started without any noticeable physical attraction. If this is because you like someone and are afraid they aren't attracted to you don't worry about it. Just hang out with them and if it's meant to be, your inner beauty will hook 'em. Be yourself and don't try too hard.
2007-07-26 12:39:54 · answer #5 · answered by nuggytbok 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know for the rest of the guys but i know from my self that i always look for a girl with a great character and usually the first thing i notice on a girl that i meet for a first time is her smile and general her face..
Hope i helped you with my answer!
2007-08-01 03:12:10 · answer #6 · answered by clark kent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm gonna have to say a 50/50 on this one. Half looks, half personality
2007-07-26 12:32:15 · answer #7 · answered by Alex B 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well looks first but then they have to have a good personality
to stick around with
2007-07-26 12:33:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
first off.. .looks.. if people say personality they are lying.. looks.. but if they dont have a good personality then everything just fails..
2007-08-02 03:31:28 · answer #9 · answered by bob hanky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good sense of humor, intelligence, good looks, upbeat, optimistic... that kinda stuff.
2007-08-01 13:45:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋