i have this friend and she is really pissed b/c some other girl who used to be her friend and isnt now b/c some other girl said that she was talking about her behind her back so now one girl is talking about my friend and tell my friends friends that she has been talking about them behind their backs and now they wont talk to her and it is making me feel bad for her b/c she is miserable do u have any advise for her? if u do let me know please!!
2007-07-26 03:41:46 · 7 answers · asked by *Heather* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
All these types of situations are just grooming her for the life that awaits her in the 'real' world! There will always be someone who will try to make your life miserable for whatever reasons. Some people do it for revenge, some do it for notoriety, some do it because they are jealous and some do it because they are jerks! Regardless of why they
are doing it to your friend , they are noticing her enough to target her for any of the reasons I mentioned above. Your friend should dismiss their badmouthing as just gossip but she should be proud of the fact that they are paying enough attention to her to be doing that to her. As long as someone is in your business it is because they are paying attention to you and what you do. Tell her that she should not feel bad, the rumors will end soon and all will get back to normal.
2007-07-26 06:14:10 · answer #1 · answered by SexRexRx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, tell her to find real friends, like yourself, who needs the headache of being caught up in the middle of a bunch of bullying gossip queens? With friends like that who needs enemies? Maybe you should try to intervene since you are still on her other friends good side and explain the situation. That is what friends do for one another, they stick by each other through thick and thin, but don't be surprised if you find yourself suffering the same fate as your friend. You really need to step back and reevaluate who your true friends are.
2007-07-26 03:58:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i have advice....
Your friend's problems DO NOT belong to you... so don't take them on and try to solve them.
Also, people do talk behind each other's backs, and have been for thousands of years... can't change human nature.
this will all pass. give it time. be a good friend, that's the best you can do...
take care of YOU and your own problems...
2007-07-26 03:46:37 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People will always have something to say whether it's negative or positive, you should'nt allow words to control you. If is true or not....I doesn't matter. Learn to have thick skin.
2007-07-26 03:49:45 · answer #4 · answered by Rafa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your friend have a baseball bat? Knock that b**ch out!!
Otherwise, you're doing a good job being a TRUE friend.
2007-07-26 03:47:01 · answer #5 · answered by DinoBaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her this.
"All Smiles are not Sincere"
"Before you Embark on a journey of revenge, dig two graves"
"Be who you are and say what you feel...
Because those that matter... don't mind...
And those that mind... don't matter."
"Don't judge others, for when you do,
There is always someone else, judging you."
2007-07-26 03:45:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Typical teenagers
2007-07-26 03:46:03 · answer #7 · answered by Ans 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋